Erin McLain is a mother of twins and successful business woman. She shares how the nature of her marriage was of psychological abuse and how when she broke free from that she could finally breathe again. She talks about what she did to grow from the fancy gym to the workshops and training seminars. She talks about how the type of trauma she had experienced was stuck in her body at a...

In this episode we learn about how counseling was the same early in the marriage as it was in the end. How she was told she was being abused because she couldn’t see it and she gives details on how she was manipulated and controlled. She gives insight into being with a narcissist and how the more they do it the more she was convinced it was her causing the issues. She also shares programs where she attended that helped her heal and move on to...

In this episode Erin shares about working with relationship coaches and how she was controlled and manipulated with money even though she earned more than him. How reading a book and by the end of the first chapter she knew it was over. She talks about how she subconsciously sabotaged the relationship accidentally on purpose because she “wouldn’t have had the balls to end it”. She also shares a deep dark truth about her...

In this episode we learn the importance of what a previous tax return means in regard to alimony payments and how much Erin liked going out into the world and saying she was married. She wanted everyone to know she was married, she wore the ring like a badge of honor. She talks about the single most important thing to do is trust yourself and the constant looking outside herself to fix herself was completely useless. She also shares that the rat in the wood pile was...

In this episode Erin tells us she would one thousand percent do it all over again. She has a real relationship herself as a result of it. She explains why she believes her kids will have an extraordinary life as a result of the divorce and how important it is to have a co-civil relationship for the kids. Overall, Erin does an incredible job of explaining the importance of being who you want to be inside of your own humanity. She gives insight into what it takes to be a single mom with twins that exited her relationship with her head held high.

In this episode Madeline shares about living in San Francisco and what it was like without any single friends at the start of her divorce.  She shares how building that community was important and how it made a difference for her. She then details her awareness on how much she talked about her divorce and the different friends with whom she shared. 

In this episode we talk about how the divorce was mutual and how the process of others influenced her. “Sometimes you have to cut people out because they can’t deal with it”. She goes on to share how listening to a song can trigger a memory and shares that what hurt the most after divorce was learning her ex had... 

In this episode you will learn how Madeline viewed exercising and what the outcome of consistency is over the long term. She talks about balance and focus and how it is all necessary to keep you grounded. She also shares something very personal about how she felt within the marriage. How when the divorce was final she could finally relax and not have to...

In this episode we talk about her separation process in the F6M and how they both wanted a clean divorce. Madeline shares who got the dog and why. We learn about how important it is to set boundaries with lawyers and how it sometimes takes a podcast to have one more important conversation with our sister. She concludes this episode how her and the Ex both had doubts before the wedding about... 

In this episode Madeline shares the importance of instinct and trusting your gut before getting married. She talks about having self awareness about you are saying and why when speaking to others.  She also shares what she would do differently if she had to do it all over again.