In our last episode with Carrie she shares an important insight. How everytime you think you fail, it's actually not a failure but an opportunity to pivot. She talks about her intuition and how she didn’t listen to it. How she knew her ex was being unfaithful but she wasn’t willing to recognize it. "The relationship wasn’t what it needed to be." The emotional connection was severed, he was invested in someone else. As she tells her story she says “He couldn’t have been happy because i was miserable.” 

The beauty about this conversation is how a woman like Carrie can look back at her past and notice that she was “trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.” She takes responsibility for her life and then turns it around.  

Carrie is an unbelievable woman with a beautiful story. After meeting her you are left with a sense of having known her your whole life. Her story becomes yours, as if you had just spent the entire weekend nestled inside the pages of a book you couldn’t put down.

In this episode we meet Luis Moro, an entrepreneur, award winning filmmaker, father of two beautiful girls and an author of several books. He explains how divorce was an incredible reinvention tour and how your vocabulary is going to keep you in the trap you are in. He explains how he found himself not trying to have his ex be like his father who...

In this episode we dive deeper into Luis, the human being and language. How important it is to understand that you are who you say you are. Luis also shares how he was never going to deny his experience of love for her, not even if...

This episode reveals how Luis was a stand for his daughter’s not experiencing him hating their mother. He did everything possible for his ex to be successful.  It's not healthy to have one half of the kids parents being unhealthy. He explains how he surrendered the decade in order to be present for his daughters growing up in their critical years. We also learn how anything anyone ever says to him is taken as a contribution, even if...

In this final episode with Luis we learn what his thoughts on co-parenting are, how it takes two people to make a relationship work, and one to mess it up. He shares how life is a gift and not a debt. When I asked how he is with his ex cheating on him, he replied “c’mon, I have”…

In this episode we meet Misty Roberts, who is 20 years divorced and remembers what happened as if it were yesterday. She tells us about how she distanced herself, what she did after he hit her and why she stayed with him after rehab. Her story is that of rock legends and therapists.  The best part was when she said...

In this episode Misty recalls the thing she had been running from her whole life. How she owed no one but herself. She shared how she was able to get the rest of her life out of getting divorced. 

In this episode Misty explains how the biggest thing they argued over in the divorce was who got the Nirvana import CD’s. She speaks about how they both had guilt, him for what he put her through and her for leaving. She explains how in the end it was...

In this episode we learn how Misty felt like she loved herself more back when she was getting divorced. How trusting your gut is important and to never doubt yourself. She shares how evolving as a human being is not an easy process. We also learn that she has taken some of the worlds biggest band on tour and that had she not gotten divorced, that was not...

In this episode we summarize the experience and talk about her relationship after the divorce. The process of getting to know yourself again and her relationship to sadness. Loss was not something unfamiliar to her. In the end she leaves us with “everybody should cry”.