This week Anna sits down with domestic-violence advocate Michelle Faye for one of the most vulnerable conversations she’s ever recorded. They speak openly about coercive control, survival psychology, and the “window” where women can finally leave. Together they unpack guilt, trauma bonding, and healing after abuse - so that no woman feels alone or ashamed for what she endured.

Together they unpack:

What coercive control actually looks like (when it’s not physical yet)

How abuse slowly erodes autonomy through “a thousand paper cuts”

Why women can’t “just leave” until they physically and psychologically can

How trauma bonding and love-bombing create the illusion of safety

The systemic failures that keep women in danger – and what must change

Anna also shares, for the first time in full, her own story of survival and escape - how she planned her exit, the moment she thought she would die, and the truth about what it takes to leave a narcissistic and violent partner. This conversation is raw, confronting, and deeply validating for any woman who has ever asked herself, “Why didn’t I just leave?”

This episode discusses domestic violence, physical and emotional abuse, and suicidal thoughts.

1800 RESPECT (24-hour confidential counselling) 1800 737 732

Lifeline 13 11 14

DVConnect Womensline 1800 811 811

Guest: michellefaye.com.au | Michelle Faye Instagram

Host: Anna Rose | anythinggoespodcast__

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