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Don't Accept a Narcissist's Version of You: Conditioning, Silence and Life After Narcissistic Abuse

How to Start Talking About Yourself Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Let Go of the Narc's Perception

Thanks to brainwashing and manipulation, narcissists really do a number on us - sometimes we even forget how to talk about ourselves!

Today I'm answering a question from a YouTube viewer called akihatsumo99, who asks:

"Quick question.

My narcissistic mother always compares me endlessly with other people's life's. I learned to stop expressing my desires ans aspirations for my life , but now when people ask me what I want , I just stay quiet and it becomes this awkward moment of "Ohh ,are you okay? " .

My question is how do you break yourself from the silence conditioning that the narc has trained you to be?

For the last few years I've been having this "symptom" of lacking the emotional connection I want to have with friends .

Thanks a bunch♡♡"

Start with THIS! Dare to Be Yourself!

Are you comfortable being yourself in all situations? If you're like most people, you're 90% yourself when you're with close friends, 50% yourself with casual acquaintances, and hide yourself from strangers. Being your true self in all settings and situations is scary, but ultimately empowering and relaxing. Imagine the relief you'll experience.

You no longer have to worry about the perceptions of others. You can just be yourself and feel satisfied with that.

Be yourself and take back control of your life with the tips I'm offering in this video.

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