December 16, 2025

Don’t Just Do Something, Stand There | Brewer Eberly, MD

53 minutes

Many of the world’s best physicians find it surprisingly difficult to answer the question: Why are you in medicine? In the long, arduous journey of medical training or within the technocratically-minded healthcare system, one can easily get lost in the life of the mind—and become estranged from the life of the heart.

Our guest on this episode is Brewer Eberly, MD, a third-generation family physician and a fellow at Duke Divinity School’s Theology, Medicine, and Culture Initiative. Dr. Eberly grew up listening to physicians in his family discuss their work and was drawn to how life’s biggest questions are present in medicine. Now, his research focuses on the intersections of medicine, aesthetics, and theology — with a special focus on the “nourishment of weary clinicians.”

Over the course of our conversation, Dr. Eberly shares how his early interests in art and literature continue to shape his life and work, and how the privilege of accompanying patients in all stages of life motivates his practice. We discuss how family medicine requires practitioners to have something to say about the well-lived life, and how this kind of wisdom is forged in silent contemplation. Finally, Dr. Eberly concludes with a profound and personal reflection on the question: What does it mean to willingly receive the suffering of someone that you cannot fix?

In this episode, you’ll learn about:

2:36 - Dr. Eberly’s medical and creative origin stories

10:45 - What makes family medicine unique, and Dr. Eberly’s approach to his work

22:30 - How Dr. Eberly tries to stay connected to the meaning of medicine

29:00 - The “Good Surgeon Project”

37:45 - Dr. Eberly’s view of the limitations of artificial intelligence in medicine

43:30 - Ways of engaging with and being present for the suffering of patients

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