The Art Of Coaching

E316 | Why Positivity Isn't Always the Answer


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“Just stay positive!  You’ll figure it out.  Stick with it!  Keep grinding 💪  Don’t forget to practice gratitude. 🙏”

These are just a few of the commonly used phrases we hear from those who pound the positive leadership drum over, and over, and over again.  Though well-intentioned, messages like these perpetuate the myth that a leader should always be positive, putting an immense amount of pressure on people to live up to a heroic ideal.  In the real world, we’re all just human, and embracing that is the key to being a more genuine, authentic, and skillful leader.

 In today’s episode, we:

  • Explain the consequences of forced positivity
  • Discuss the purposes of all 6 primary emotions 
  • Break down how to recognize, manage, and use “negative emotions” to enhance our leadership skills
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