The Art Of Coaching

E349 | Overcoming the "I've Tried Everything" Mindset


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“I’M DONE.”

It’s one of the most frustrating feelings in the world.  You’ve tried everything to fix things but just can’t get through to someone. You keep hitting the wall over and over. 

But what if there’s a way to revisit the problem, to approach it from a different angle, and open their minds (and ours) to new possibilities? 

In this compact episode, Brett gets straight to the point of navigating these messy situations, helping you zoom out to see the situation for what it truly is, and recognize when it's time to look in the mirror—ultimately leading to a resolution when it feels like all hope is lost.

Key subjects covered:

  • Diagnosing the REAL issue: the most crucial first step to solving any problem
  • How to see into your blindspots through someone else’s perspetive
  • Two types of errors, their differences, and how to avoid both
  • The “Triple A Approach” to ensure YOU aren’t the problem
  • Understanding the role our ego plays in the root cause of our discontent
  • One of our missions as a company is to be a beacon for people facing challenges like those we discussed in today’s episode—whether you want to become a better leader or navigate the scary realities of entrepreneurship. Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to fill that gap and provide you with a clear path to progress.

    Let us know how we can help. Reach out at [email protected].

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    If you're tired of people-problems, want to grow as a leader, or aspire to step into a leadership role, this event is for you! Join us on March 22-23, 2025, in Livingston, NJ, and take your leadership abilities to the next level.

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    Related Episodes:

    E313 | How To Communicate With Someone Who Shuts Down or Stonewalls

    E343 | The Power of Indirect Influence: Strategies for Convincing Stubborn People

    Referenced Books:

    Team of Teams by Stanley McChrystal

    The Design of Everyday Things by Don Norman

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