Codependent Doctor

E49: How to Deal With Father's Day When You Had an Emotionally Absent Father


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Do Father’s Day celebrations leave you feeling hollow instead of happy? You’re not alone.

In this raw, candid conversation, we explore the grief that comes with having a father who was physically present but emotionally absent—a special kind of loss that often goes unspoken.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • The lasting impact of emotional neglect on self-worth and relationships
  • How we internalize the absence of emotional warmth as “something is wrong with me”
  • The burden of generational silence and narrow definitions of masculinity
  • A new vision of fatherhood: presence > perfection
  • Permission to grieve what you never had—and to redefine Father’s Day on your own terms
  • Practical ways to honor yourself: letters, rituals, boundaries, or simply skipping the day

Your healing matters. Whether you’re ready to rewrite your relationship with Father’s Day or simply want to feel seen—this conversation will meet you where you are.

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