Your nervous system—not just your mindset—holds the key to healing. In this powerful conversation, Elizabeth Kipp shares how she recovered from 40 years of chronic pain and why codependent patterns are actually survival strategies, not flaws. You’ll learn simple breathing techniques to shift from stress to safety in minutes, plus holistic tools for releasing trauma, breaking cycles, and finding true regulation.

Website https://Elizabeth-Kipp.com

Facebook: elizabeth.kipp.3

Instagram @lizi.kipp

LinkedIn elizabethkipp

Free Offer: 5 Ways to Relieve Stress, Anxiety, & Fear 

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Feeling lost in people-pleasing and emotional caretaking? You’re not alone. Psychotherapist and author of Love Smacked, Sherry Gaba, joins us to unpack codependency. We explore how early relational trauma wires us to abandon ourselves for connection.

Learn to spot the subtle signs of codependency: resentment, overgiving, chronic guilt. Sherry explains the link between love addiction and the pull toward unavailable partners.

We dive into healing tools: inner child work, parts therapy, and nervous system regulation. Discover how healing doesn’t always mean leaving the relationship—discernment is key.

This episode is both validating and deeply practical for anyone on the healing path.

Tune in to reclaim your peace, power, and sense of self.

For more information, go to www.SherryGaba.com

Get my Free ebook on the link between codependency and trauma here https://sherrygaba.com/trauma-quiz

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Breakups hurt! In this episode, Dr. Downey unpacks why heartbreak can feel like withdrawal, especially for those with codependent tendencies. When your identity is wrapped up in caring for someone else, losing the relationship often means losing your sense of self. From the brain chemistry behind those late-night texts to the quiet signs it’s time to leave a draining relationship, this episode is a deep dive into the real pain of letting go—and how to begin healing for real. You’ll learn why grief is necessary, why rushed advice doesn’t help, and how to reconnect with yourself after love ends. If you’re wondering how to move forward after a breakup, this one’s for you.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

In this episode of The Codependent Doctor, I introduce the powerful yet simple tool that’s helped me stop people-pleasing on autopilot: the three-second authenticity pause. Through personal stories and practical tips, we explore how this tiny moment of mindfulness can help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom, set boundaries without guilt, and honor your truth—because real self-care starts with choosing yourself.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Have you ever thought, “My parents really tried their best… but I still got hurt”? This episode dives into that exact truth—the emotional complexity of being raised by loving parents who lacked the tools to meet all your needs.

Dr. Angela Downey shares her story from both sides:

• As a child with unmet emotional needs
• And as a mother navigating burnout while trying to give her kids everything

We explore how:

• Childhood coping becomes adult codependency
• “Being the good child” often means losing your voice

The most liberating truth? Healing doesn’t require your parents’ permission. You don’t have to wait for them to become the parent you needed—you can become that safe place for yourself now.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Have you ever felt the quiet pressure to “just get over it” after someone broke your trust?

Maybe they apologized. Maybe they didn’t. But something inside you still feels unsettled.

Trust doesn’t rebuild overnight. It takes consistency, accountability, and the slow return of emotional safety—not just a quick “I’m sorry.”

In this episode, we explore:

• Why trust feels like emotional debt, not a switch you can flip
• How codependent patterns make rebuilding trust even harder
• The difference between true accountability vs. shame spirals
• How emotional safety is rebuilt through small, steady moments
• Why your healing timeline matters—and why it’s okay to take your time

Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust or deciding if a relationship can be repaired, this episode offers practical guidancefor moving forward in ways that feel right for you.

✨Connect with me on Instagram or Threads @drangeladowney—and don’t forget to share what you’re grateful for today.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Do Father’s Day celebrations leave you feeling hollow instead of happy? You’re not alone.

In this raw, candid conversation, we explore the grief that comes with having a father who was physically present but emotionally absent—a special kind of loss that often goes unspoken.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• The lasting impact of emotional neglect on self-worth and relationships
• How we internalize the absence of emotional warmth as “something is wrong with me”
• The burden of generational silence and narrow definitions of masculinity
• A new vision of fatherhood: presence > perfection
• Permission to grieve what you never had—and to redefine Father’s Day on your own terms
• Practical ways to honor yourself: letters, rituals, boundaries, or simply skipping the day

Your healing matters. Whether you’re ready to rewrite your relationship with Father’s Day or simply want to feel seen—this conversation will meet you where you are.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Codependency doesn't just affect romantic relationships—it can appear in our friendships too, creating anxiety, over-functioning, and emotional entanglement that feels just as intense without the relationship label. Emotional intimacy is emotional intimacy, regardless of whether it's with a friend or partner, and our attachment patterns don't discriminate.

• Friendships lack the clear definitions and expectations that romantic relationships have—there's no "define the relationship" talk or breakup script
• Unspoken friendship rules create confusion, especially for those with codependent tendencies who overfunction to maintain connections
• Friendship grief is just as valid as romantic heartbreak, though society rarely acknowledges it in the same way
• Jealousy and fear can emerge when friends develop new relationships or life changes, triggering abandonment wounds
• Notice which friendships feel genuinely safe versus which ones just feel familiar due to shared history

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

Mental health and codependency intersect in profound ways that affect how we treat ourselves, not just our relationships with others. We explore four key patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of burnout, guilt, and emotional exhaustion while providing practical steps toward healing.
We will explore how:

• People-pleasing isn't just politeness but a nervous system survival response developed in childhood
• Self-abandonment occurs when we consistently put others first regardless of the cost to ourselves
• Chronic guilt and shame keep us stuck in patterns of overgiving even when it's harming our wellbeing
• Emotional over-responsibility leads to burnout when we take ownership of others' feelings and problems

Whether you're deep into your healing journey or just beginning to wonder why you're so tired all the time, this episode offers both validation and practical steps forward. Because you don't need to set yourself on fire to keep everyone else warm. 

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

In this bonus episode for Mental Health Awareness Month, Dr. Angela Downey shares five powerful mindset shifts that challenge how we think about healing and self-care:

• Healing isn’t linear — Growth often looks messy, not perfect.
• You can struggle and still be strong — Vulnerability is courage, not weakness.
• Feeling your feelings isn’t weakness — Emotions are messengers, not problems to fix.
• Rest is productive — You don’t need to earn your downtime.
• Boundaries protect your peace — Limits aren’t selfish, they’re essential.

This episode is for anyone navigating burnout, people-pleasing, codependency, or just feeling overwhelmed by mental health advice that doesn’t reflect real life.

Send me a message

You can buy my books now on Amazon.

🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.

🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.

🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook

🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon

Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases, at no extra cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement