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In this episode of the Earn Your Title podcast, Danny Dumas interviews his father, Dan Dumas, a marriage counselor with over 40 years of experience. They discuss common problems in newlywed relationships, the importance of roles and expectations, expressing appreciation and effective communication, knowing when to seek professional help, the process of marriage counseling, the significance of love languages, and avoiding mediocrity in marriage. They also provide daily actions that can contribute to a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Takeaways

Understanding and managing expectations is crucial in newlywed relationships.
Effective communication and active listening are essential for resolving conflicts.
Seeking professional help can be beneficial when relationship problems persist.
Love languages play a significant role in expressing love and appreciation.
Avoiding mediocrity in marriage requires continuous effort and a commitment to growth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background
04:36 Common Problems in Newlywed Relationships
07:29 Roles and Expectations in Marriage
09:24 Expressing Appreciation and Communication
15:34 Knowing When to Seek Professional Help
21:24 The Process of Marriage Counseling
25:43 The Importance of Love Languages
28:34 Avoiding Mediocrity in Marriage
34:49 Daily Actions for a Healthy Relationship
41:03 Summary and Closing Remarks

Resources
The Five Love Languages

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Welcome to the Earn Your Title podcast with Danny Dumas! In this episode, Danny explores the crucial topic of guiding boys through the transition from boyhood to manhood. As a father himself, he shares insights and advice to alleviate the pressure parents may feel during this confusing and pivotal time.

Danny emphasizes the importance of recognizing that sons are independent individuals, not clones of their fathers. He outlines the responsibilities of providing a loving and safe environment, meeting basic needs, and instilling structure. Setting a positive example in relationships, demonstrating respect for spouses, and showcasing healthy behaviors are key elements in helping sons develop into good husbands and men.

The podcast delves into the mindset shift needed, reminding parents that their sons are not perfect and will make mistakes. Danny encourages acknowledging and rewarding moments of manly actions, reinforcing positive behavior without expecting perfection. He emphasizes the role of parents in coaching and guiding their sons through challenges, recognizing the transition from boyhood to manhood is a gradual process.

Join Danny in the Earn Your Title podcast as he navigates the complexities of parenting and offers practical advice to foster a healthy transition for boys into responsible and confident men. Tune in for more valuable insights and real-talk about the journey from boyhood to manhood.

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In this episode of the Earn Your Title Podcast, Danny Dumas dives into the topic of Christmas and the art of gift-giving. As a dad who loves Christmas but values simplicity, Danny shares insights from his family’s 15-year Christmas tradition. Here’s a breakdown of the key points:

•Introduction to Christmas Excitement:
•Danny sets the festive tone by expressing his love for Christmas and the upcoming holiday season.
•Highlights his minimalistic approach to decorating, opting for a laser light display instead.
•The Love Language of Gift Giving:
•Reveals that his love language is gift-giving and the joy he finds in selecting the perfect presents for loved ones.
•Acknowledges the tendency to go overboard with gift ideas due to excitement.
•Balancing Joy and Moderation:
•Reflects on the challenge of ensuring his kids enjoy Christmas without becoming spoiled.
•Shares a story about a friend who took back an expensive gift because his child complained.
•Reflecting on Meaningful Childhood Gifts:
•Encourages listeners to recall five memorable gifts from their childhood, emphasizing the lasting impact of meaningful presents.
•The Dumas Family Christmas Giving System:
•Introduces the family’s Christmas giving strategy, including gifts from Santa, parents, and siblings.
•Describes Santa’s simple yet thoughtful gift in plain paper and its symbolic importance.
•Outlines the four-gift rule per child, promoting quality over quantity.
•The Significance of Experience-Based Gifts:
•Stresses the importance of experiences and memories over material possessions.
•Shares examples of impactful gifts like foosball and ping pong tables and attending a musical with family.
•Setting Limits and Simplifying:
•Advises against going into debt for Christmas and advocates for simplicity.
•Discusses the family’s spending limit of $1,000 to $1,500, including gifts for nieces.
•Memorable Gifts and the True Spirit of Christmas:
•Encourages listeners to buy memorable gifts that enhance their children’s lives.
•Reminds everyone of the true essence of Christmas: celebrating the birth of Christ, family togetherness, and relaxation.
•Conclusion:
•Emphasizes not stressing over gift-giving and setting realistic limits.
•Urges listeners to stick to their chosen giving system, sharing the success of his family’s approach over 15 years.
•Sign-off:
•Danny wraps up the episode, reminding listeners to put their Christmas plans into action and “earn your title every day.”

This episode provides a thoughtful perspective on simplifying Christmas, promoting meaningful connections and experiences over excessive materialism.

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In this episode we discuss the difference between empathy and sympathy.
We discuss the benefits of not having “too much” empathy.
We  discuss how empathy can get in the way of doing the right thing
We in courage all men to develop the skill of knowing exactly when to have empathy and when to put your feeling aside and go to work. 

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Talking to your kids can be awkward. It might seem that they are not listening. It might seem that they don't care, but they do. Keep talking to them and have these three conversations that can be extremely awkward. 
In this episode Danny gives you a framework to have three of the most important and awkward conversations

The " I am sorry  I messed up "conversation
The " When you said/did this is made me feel like this " conversation
The " I am so proud because you did this " conversation. 

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How much protein should you eat? 
Is animal protein better the plant based protein?
Should you cut protein intake when you are trying to lose weight?
When should you eat protein?
The answers to these questions and more are in this episode of the earn your title podcast

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For some hunting is a way of life, but for many it is something the have only seen on TV. In this episode I break down 3 reasons why every man needs to know how to  kill, clean and cook their food. 

Hunting is healthy. Not only is the actual meat you are eating the very definition of organic free range but to know what it takes to take a life so you can live is an important mindset to have.

Hunting is great for mental health. Getting time alone outside to stop and think and reflect is important for mental health and mental clarity. 

Hunting is a great way to make memories with family and friends. There is nothing more  fun and important for a young man that to spend time with older men. Hunting is a chance for mentorship  to happen. Young boys get to learn from others who are not their dad’s important lessons that they will not learn from their fathers. 

If you have not eaten something that you have killed, you should. It could change your life. 

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In this episode we talk to a special forces medic about the challenges he faced going through the selection process. You will notice that I do not use his name. This is because he is still has a security clearance and is still operational. 
We talk about the importance of finding your why and committing to showing up and earning it every day. 
We discuss how learning to be uncomfortable is important and understanding that being uncomfortable has a time limit. 
As a bonus for those that follow to the end he gives you a list of skills and equipment you should have to be prepared for anything life throws at you. 

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Have you ever been in a meeting a feel like no one understands what you are saying?
Have you ever shared a creative idea and feel like everyone around you shuts it down as soon as speak it?
Have you ever been told you to negative when you because you voice real concerns about a new project or idea?
The problem miscommunication happens every day. Two people can sit in the same room and hear the same message and both of them leave with a completely different understanding of the message.
Learning about the 5 different voice that people speak in can drastically imporve your ability to effectively communicate your ideas.
Getting people that speak with different voices can insure that what ever project or event you are attempting to implement is successful.
Learning the they your voice your family speaks can being clarity to arguments you have had in the past and you can learn to avoid them in the future.

Resources “The 5 Voices”

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