Episode 80 started with a question on Twitter: If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self about kink? That started a discussion between us about the emotional impact of figuring out you’re kinky and that you want D/s in some form. You might be surprised but we each had very different reactions – and you might have too.

In this episode:

* How you feel when you discover you’re kinky:

* Excited

* Terrified

* Am I going to hell?

* You may have to deal with rejection from your partner.

* Were you ready to do ALL the things?

* Did you get freaked out?

* You might question your sanity

* You might question your entire childhood – am I damaged?

* As a female submissive, I wondered whether I could truly call myself feminist

* As a parent of boys, I worried about how this could impact them.

Links from the Show:

How Discovering Kink Made Me Feel

Dealing With and Understanding Subfrenzy (episode 67)

30 Days of D/s

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