Enneagram and Marriage

There are three distinctive ways of being that are hard-wired into our nervous systems and they are associated with the three centers in the Enneagram, body, heart, and mind. Today Leslie Hershberger, Enneagram expert of 25+ years, and married to her husband Dave for 40 years, shares with us here and on YouTube about the ways we process conflict in marriage. Don't miss Leslie's very deep dive into the centers with us as she unpacks the ways we defend our positions as well as the ways we can continue to find a richer path to healing together.   Watch on YouTube:   https://youtu.be/g9QQ1JDz44U Find Leslie's website here! https://lesliehershberger.com/   https://lesliehershberger.com/courses/foundations-of-the-enneagram/ World Vision Ukrainian Fund   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to [email protected]. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Seven in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Seven, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Seven in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Seven (and all the types!) >> here 

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Many couples think that conflict is bad or unhealthy but our most recent studies and experts on the show, including Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of the world-renowned relationship outreach, Marriage Helper, disagree. Conflict keeps a marriage honest, healthy, and allows couples to learn with each other and to teach one another. Today Christa is joined by Kimberly, who is an Enneagram 3, to talk about the healthy ways couples can specifically grow in the area of conflict resolution so that they can use it to strengthen them and not tear them apart.

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What happens when real love is actually on tap at Netflix? Tune in to hear our fun tea and convo on the social experiment of Season 2: Love is Blind as we discuss the love stories that skyrocketed the show to the number #1 rank on Netflix last week and had seventy percent of our audience intrigued. Christa and guest Olivia Haymond bring you right into the experiment with us as we discuss the love we saw on air, surmise about being in the shoes of the show members, and of course, try to extend grace and wisdom as we wrap our fascinated minds around the good, the bad, and the ugly of love blindness with you! Grab your deeper dive here: Deep Dives Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to [email protected]. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Six in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Six, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Six in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Six right here (and all the types!) >> here    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to [email protected]. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

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How can we shift our knee-jerk instinctual responses in marriage? How can we offer more compassion and growth opportunities where we may have written one another off as deficient? In today's episode Christa chats with world-renowned Enneagram teacher, thought leader, and coach Beatrice Chestnut of CP Enneagram Academy about how we can both respond to and gently learn to shift and balance with our spouses, partners, and communities as we learn about our SP (self-preserving), SX (sexual), and SO (social) instincts together. 

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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Five in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Five, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Five in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Five right here (and all the types!) >> here 

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Today’s podcast is a special show that aims to both inspire and balance you as we talk about walking through the season of darkness and divorce with Enneagram author Kim Eddy, Type 1. It's so important to know how to support the many who go through a divorce in friend circles, in extended families, and especially when it's personal to you. Join Christa and Kim as we talk through tips for not letting bitterness overtake us in these moments but instead slowly learn to light a candle of grace in the dark as we hold onto faith, hope, and community.

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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Four in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Four, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Four in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!

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Although the love languages were created several decades ago, the Truity Psychometric Assessment team recently studied 500,000 modern individuals to find out if the data had shifted. Evidence shows there are now seven styles of love for partners to discuss and to discover their best ways of loving together, which is exciting. We're talking about them here with Truity's founder and CEO Molly Owens, Enneagram 4 as we bring research practically into our homes and into our hearts together! Don't miss this chance to learn and grow with us as well as to take the test yourself!

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