#1 Stop emphasizing on respecting this woman! Going after what you want does not make you a disrespectful man. Focus less on what comes naturally. Respect her, yes. But, escalate and stop trying to be "careful".

#2 Take the lead and claim it! Does not mean you tell her you like her but you take the lead in being unapologetically honest. Escalate!

" I see you looking at me like that"

" Wearing red to catch my attention huh? It's working"

#3 Pick up the phone and call her! M