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Ep 272 - Empathy Overload: How to Care Without Costing Yourself -


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In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, experienced marriage and family therapists, delve into the intricate balance of empathy and the importance of setting boundaries. Continuing from their previous discussion on the power of empathy, they now examine the dangers of unlimited empathy and how it can be detrimental both to one's emotional health and relationships.

The episode explores the concept of empathy not as a limitless endeavor but one in need of healthy boundaries. The Olsons emphasize the importance of understanding when empathy leads to burnout, unhealthy dynamics, or codependency. They caution against the pitfalls of feeling responsible for others' emotional states and neglecting one’s own needs.

Listeners will learn about the signs of overextending empathy, including staying in unhealthy relationships out of guilt, feeling drained or resentful, and experiencing compassion fatigue. The couple shares personal insights and professional examples, illustrating how unlimited empathy might lead to loss of identity or enabling behaviors.

Through grounding phrases and self-reflection exercises, Tim and Ruth provide practical strategies for practicing empathy with boundaries. Listeners are encouraged to honor their energy, recognize the necessity of saying no, and differentiate between caring for and carrying another's emotional burden.

This episode is a must-listen for caregivers, empaths, and anyone seeking to transform their empathy into a sustainable and healthy part of their lives. Tune in to discover how to foster compassion while maintaining your well-being, ensuring you're not only a support to others but also to yourself.

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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

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