It's My Pleasure

Ep. 40: The Competing Selves


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I was talking with one of my clients this week about last week’s episode. Desire and drive are different because it isn’t a biological need, but how does that change anything for us? This week I want to continue the conversation about how to want sex, and understanding our inner voices and what it takes to want to undergo change.

I love hearing your thoughts. It always helps inform what I should spend my time talking about in these episodes and what I want to share. I want to hear your thoughts and follow up questions. Hit me up directly at [email protected]. You can also follow me on Instagram and message me @DanielleSavoryCoaching.

Topics in this episode:

  • The thoughts and belief patterns that get in the way of sexual pleasure
  • How those thoughts take us to a place of rejection of ourselves and partnerships
  • Changing the tone of your thoughts
  • Learning how to want sex
  • The siren and the sage
  • Acting from a place of thoughts that were chosen ahead of time
  • Moving through discomfort for the sake of growth

I hope that today’s topic about the competing selves when making a change will help you create more space to become the pleasured woman you are wanting to be. 

You can access the worksheet that goes along with the episode at daniellesavory.com/sirensage

If you’re really ready to stop wasting time, working with me one-on-one, working with me is the most time-effieicnt fun and pleasurable way to discover how to enjoy sex again. I will have one opening later this month for a new client and I am currently having consultations to figure out who will take this spot. Apply for my coaching at

http://daniellesavory.com/coaching

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