Alongside their first in person guest, Irene C. , Stephanie and Travis discuss “the patriarchy”, and make an argument for just throwing the whole phrase “submissive women” in the trash. There were so many comments about Stephanie misinterpreting the phrase, but in reality, it seems as if people are just redefining it, when they can just not use the term at all. Language is important! This weeks “Oh So Y’all Can Relate” has us exploring the friend zone and “finger penises”. Is he just not that into her? Or is he ashamed of his package? You help us decide. Finally, they all dig deep to discuss all the layers that are interconnected within their identity. They talk candidly about how blackness and anti-blackness has impacted their own self acceptance and their professional life. They acknowledge privileges tied to how they show up in the world. Privileges tied to skin color, being thin, speaking Spanish, and being a man.