In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the Destroyer Archetype which is known for rebellion and bringing family secrets to light, often seen as difficult or an outcast.

The Destroyer archetype is someone who often rebels against family norms and is seen as a "black sheep." Destroyers carry a strong sense of independence, yet this can lead to feelings of isolation.

The Destroyer’s journey is often marked by deep wounds, including feelings of abandonment, rejection, and self-doubt. Growing up in chaotic environments can lead to difficulties managing finances.

Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family.

The Destroyer’s wounds of not belonging can create an overwhelming fear of failure, particularly regarding money. This can result in stagnation, where this archetype remains stuck in unsatisfying financial situations.

In an effort to feel a sense of belonging or acceptance, Destroyers may overcompensate by spending excessively on material goods or experiences.

This is another insightful episode.

Tune in!

[02:08] - Introduction to the podcast

[04:00] - Discussion on the destroyer archetype

[08:27] – The Destroyer’s role in the family

[17:32] - Challenges faced by destroyers in following traditional financial advice

[20:37] - Introduction to the destroyer archetype's characteristics

[24:59] - Importance of the destroyer archetype

[30:32] - The independence of destroyers and their challenges in adulthood

[35:00] - Importance of healthy conflict initiated by destroyers

[39:39] - Core wounds of the destroyer archetype and their financial impact

[45:41] - Impact of fear of being too much

[49:39] - How fear of rejection affects destroyers' finances

[54:02] - The healing journey of the destroyer archetype

[58:17] - Releasing thoughts and emotions in the body

[01:01:16] - Transition from destroyer to renovator archetype

[01:02:39] - Explanation of the renovator's role in the family

[01:06:57] - How healing affects destroyers' financial behavior

[01:11:18] - The Destroyers' financial transformation after healing

[01:19:30] - Information on purchasing the book and accessing resources

[01:23:47] - Introduction to one-on-one coaching and its benefits

[01:33:47] – Closing remarks

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