Money Magic Podcast

Episode 128: Stability and Presence: Moving from Financial Avoidance to Empowerment


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In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the "RunAway archetype" and its transformation into the "Grounded Seeker."

Vangile explains the behavioral patterns, core wounds, and healing journey of the RunAway, which involves avoiding uncomfortable financial situations and feelings due to learned trauma responses.

The RunAway archetype often manifests through avoidance, escapism, and impulsive spending, leading to cycles of debt and financial instability.

The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body.

The Grounded Seeker archetype embodies stability, presence, and financial awareness, enabling individuals to build generational wealth and improve family dynamics.

Vangile emphasizes how the RunAway thrives by developing routines, coming into their bodies and regulating their nervous system.

This is another insightful episode.

Tune in!

 

During this episode, you will learn about:

 

[02:08] - Introduction to the podcast

[03:59] - Discussion on the runaway archetype and its transformation

[08:15] - Characteristics and behaviors of the RunAway archetype

[14:03] - Effects of trauma on the runaway archetype and family dynamics

[18:14] - Dissociation and externalizing security

[25:10] - Discussion on busyness and financial habits of runaways

[29:07] - Differences between runaway and sweet one archetypes in conflict avoidance

[33:08] - Short-term solutions and the allure of quick fixes

[37:29] - Physical manifestations of trauma and its impact on the body

[40:38] - Cycles of debt and financial avoidance

[44:35] - Impulsive spending and its consequences

[51:50] - Addiction tendencies and family relationships

[54:34] - Beginning the healing journey and physical symptoms

[57:34] - Importance of somatic work and mind-body connection

[01:04:21] - Characteristics of the grounded seeker archetype

[01:07:08] - Developing self-trust and financial responsibility

[01:10:59] - Key practices for the grounded seeker

[01:13:36] - Practicing neutrality with money

[01:16:10] - Building financial trust and empowerment

[01:18:48] - Closing remarks and reflection prompts

[01:25:45] - Information on where to find the book and how to work with Vangile

[01:32:46] - Details on one-on-one coaching

[01:34:03] - Final comments and participant interaction

 

 Notable Quotes

 

  1. "The runaway archetype has learned to respond to trauma predominantly by going into the flight response."
  2.  

    1. "Some of us who are the runaway archetype learn to deal with money by avoiding responsibility."
    2. "The runaway's role is to metabolize the unseen and unprocessed trauma in the family."
    3. "The grounded seeker's role is to teach every family member to acknowledge their own feelings."
    4. "The grounded seeker is all about being in the body and setting boundaries."
    5.      

      Additional money trauma resources:

       

      One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching 

      Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

      7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

      Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

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