In this episode of "Sex Advice for Seniors," I’m thrilled to welcome back a remarkable advocate for the sexual rights of disabled individuals. The last time we spoke, Maria Cyndi had recently launched an Instagram channel and a Substack. Unfortunately, she felt compelled to shut them down after facing harassment and unwanted attention from individuals fetishizing her disability. However, she has now courageously decided to relaunch her platforms, fighting back against prejudice and speaking her truth unapologetically.

Maria’s prominence as one of the few women writing about sexual pleasure and disability has inspired her to dedicate more time to her craft. She’s now focusing on her writing, contributing guest posts to prominent blogs, and participating in an upcoming anthology.

Join me as we explore the challenges Maria has faced, her unwavering determination to reclaim her body and identity, and her invaluable advice for disabled individuals navigating their sexuality. Maria’s story is a powerful testament to the importance of understanding sexual well-being and disability, and her voice is one we all need to hear.

Chapters

01:02 Maria Cyndi's Journey into Advocacy

01:55 Challenges of Online Advocacy

05:14 Writing and Contributing to Anthologies

08:34 Transitioning to Full-Time Writing

10:21 Navigating Social Media and Community

13:47 Reclaiming Pleasure and Overcoming Trauma

15:31 The Impact of Education on Sexuality

17:43 Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy

20:34 The Ongoing Journey of Healing and Communication

22:20 Navigating Relationships and Disability

24:28 The Importance of Open Communication

26:10 Exploring Sexuality and Consent

29:18 Finding the Right Tools for Pleasure

30:47 Breaking Stereotypes: Disabled People and Sex

33:32 Media Representation of Disabled Sexuality

36:23 Creating Inclusive Spaces for All

39:00 The Need for Diverse Narratives in Media

Now’s here the bit about me:

Hi, I’m Suzanne — the proud host of Sex Advice for Seniors and a 365-days-a-year champion for the right of older folks to experience sexual pleasure. No matter your age, size, shape, or the state of your knees, hips, back, you should feel free to embrace your sexuality. If you don’t wanna have sex anymore, that’s cool. But if you do? You absolutely shouldn’t feel ashamed about it.

I’m on a mission to smash one of life’s last, stubborn taboos: the idea that older people can’t be sexy or sexual. SCREW THAT.

Every week, come rain or shine, I record at least one podcast where I sit down with an expert on sex, dating, or relationships. Let’s just say I’ve met some seriously cool people and learned a lot. (I’m not saying I deserve an honorary degree, but if someone wants to give me one, I’ll graciously accept. Just putting that out there).

My podcasts are free for all listeners, but for my discerning readers who enjoy a little extra spice in their lives, I offer paywalled posts. These juicy extras might include sex toy reviews (yes, I test them all myself, so don’t say I don’t go the extra mile), personal stories from my sexploits, or deep dives into more intimate topics.

If you’re a paid subscriber, you’ll also receive my 32-page booklet, ‘Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life,’ and gain access to a private chat room where me and my readers swap stories, share tips, and ask questions. All this for what I think is a very reasonable £6.99/month—or, if you’re feeling savvy, you can snag the Senior Discount with an annual subscription at £49.99/year.

So, whether you’re here for the laughs, the learning, or just the libido boost, welcome aboard.

Hey, but don’t take it from me. Here’s what others say about Sex Advice for Seniors:

“Not enough older voices talking about sex. Are we just supposed to dry up and fade away?”

“I enjoy staying abreast of new ideas and learning new ways to please my wife.”

“Straight non judgmental information that relates to my needs.”

“Love the honesty and humour and the vulnerability too.”

“I like that you acknowledge so openly and joyously that older people can still want and need sexual satisfaction. And that it can be better and more satisfying than when you were younger! But we also need open, honest, non judgemental advice in order to get the most out of sex in later years.”

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