In this radiant and deeply encouraging episode, Alyssa Dineen welcomes beauty expert, author, and What Not to Wear alum Carmindy for a conversation about confidence, energy, and attraction, on and off dating apps.

Carmindy shares how her years in the beauty industry taught her that real magnetism comes from energy, not appearance. She opens up about navigating midlife dating, embracing authenticity, and how her “inner glow” philosophy transforms both self-image and relationships.

Alyssa and Carmindy talk about the connection between self-worth and attraction, why showing up with confidence changes your dating outcomes, and how to shift from scarcity to abundance in love. They also dig into the realities of dating later in life, and how to stay open and joyful while doing it.

This is a feel-good, empowering conversation that reminds listeners that beauty is energy, and the right person will always be drawn to your real glow.

You’ll also hear about:

• (02:10) Carmindy’s evolution from TV makeup artist to confidence coach
• (05:45) Why true beauty starts with inner energy, not external polish
• (10:30) How your vibration and mindset shape your dating experience
• (14:20) The energetic shift that happens when you stop “trying too hard”
• (18:40) Dating over 40: letting go of fear and embracing new possibilities
• (23:55) Why confidence and joy are more magnetic than perfection
• (28:30) How to create a pre-date ritual that grounds and energizes you
• (33:50) Reframing rejection and detaching from outcomes
• (38:10) The connection between self-care, manifestation, and attraction
• (42:25) Carmindy’s advice for women reentering the dating scene
• (47:00) How to embody beauty from the inside out - and let love come to you

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Learn more about Carmindy Bowyer:

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