ADHD Families Podcast

Episode 65: How to tell your child they have ADHD


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How do you tell your child they have ADHD without making it feel scary, overwhelming or negative? In this episode, Sharon, ADHD coach and parent mentor, walks you through exactly how to approach this sensitive conversation with warmth and confidence. You’ll learn how to turn a diagnosis into empowerment — and how to nurture your child’s self-understanding from the start.

If your child has recently been diagnosed, Sharon’s free workshop “3 Steps to an Easier Family Life with ADHD” will help you feel equipped and confident. Grab your spot now at thefunctionalfamily.com/easier  💛

👀 In this episode, Sharon covers:

✅ Why telling your child they have ADHD early builds resilience and self-esteem
✅ The biggest mistake parents make when keeping it a “secret”
✅ How to frame ADHD as a unique brain wiring rather than a disorder
✅ Simple ways to weave ADHD into everyday chats, not “big sit-down talks”
✅ How to highlight your child’s strengths — not just their challenges
✅ Real-life language you can use to explain ADHD to different age groups
✅ How to stay curious and keep the conversation going as your child grows

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Finding the right words to tell your child about ADHD
02:15 – Why Sharon felt lost after her first diagnosis
04:00 – The importance of empowering children with the truth
06:30 – Why avoiding “the label” can cause more harm than good
09:45 – How to keep the conversation casual and positive
13:10 – Reframing ADHD as unique brain wiring
15:20 – Using relatable role models to inspire your child
18:00 – Sharing your own ADHD story (without assumptions)
21:15 – Highlighting strengths and self-understanding
25:00 – Encouraging ongoing questions and curiosity
28:00 – Teaching that “everything is figureoutable”
30:45 – Sharon’s free workshop for parents: 3 Steps to an Easier Family Life with ADHD

💡 Next Steps + Resources
  • 🎧 Subscribe to The Functional Family Podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube

  • 🎁 Join the free workshop: thefunctionalfamily.com/easier 

  • 📘 Download Sharon’s ADHD resources via her website

  • 💬 Follow Sharon on Instagram at @thefunctionalfamily 

    💼 Work With Sharon

    Sharon helps parents of children with ADHD create calmer homes and confident families through coaching, workshops, and practical ADHD resources.

    Start with her free workshop, “3 Steps to an Easier Family Life with ADHD,” or explore her signature Functional Family Membership for deeper support and community.

    🌐 Visit thefunctionalfamily.com  to learn more.

     

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