Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast

Episode #68: Leaving A Narcissist; Why It's So Hard, And How to Stay Free


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In this powerful and compassionate episode, Lizzie and Deana dive deep into the emotional complexities of leaving toxic relationships. They explore the internal battles many face—fear, guilt, and trauma bonds—and how these emotions can make leaving feel even more difficult than staying.

Through real talk and heartfelt insights, they shed light on:

  • Why the fear of the unknown often feels safer than taking the leap,
  • How guilt and shame can sabotage healing,
  • And most importantly, the critical role of community support in navigating this painful transition.

Whether you're considering leaving, in the process, or supporting someone who is—this episode offers a grounded, honest, and hopeful roadmap forward.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Leaving a toxic relationship brings both relief and fear—both are normal.
  • Emotions are temporary; healing is possible.
  • Supportive community is essential to break free and stay free.
  • Trauma bonds can keep you attached even when you want out.
  • Feelings of guilt and regret are common—but not facts.
  • Staying rooted in truth is your greatest weapon.
  • The fear of change can be deceivingly comfortable.
  • Documenting your "why" can keep you strong during weak moments.
  • It's okay to feel awkward and unsure in the beginning.
  • Healing is not linear—be patient and kind to yourself.

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