My friend McKay Mayes (from Wyoming, London South RM, Age 29, Lives/Works in Utah County) joins us to share his story including:

Always believing/hoping he would be fixed and be straight

Great mission experience—but still gay

Not fitting the typical gay stereotype

Dating and trying to make it work with a woman—wanted to follow God’s plan—super painful not finding a way to make that possible

Feeling “left behind” as straight friends got married

For six years, committed to being single in line with the Church’s celibate guidance—leading to the darkest/most painful moments of McKay’s life

New prayers (instead of “fix me”)

Finding hope, acceptance of being gay, and purpose in his new path

Relationship with the Church and hopes for changes

First coming out experience (super helpful)

I continue to be amazed by the brave/mature/thoughtful people who share their stories on the podcast—with McKay joining that group—and his desire to give hope to others walking a similar road.

Thank you, McKay, for all you have done to bless/help the lives of others (mission, EFY counselor, etc) and continue to do so with your courage to be out/honest and be on the podcast to give hope to others. You are a good man with a great life ahead of you!

Links:

McKay on Instagram: @mckay_mayes

McKay on Facebook: www.facebook.com/mckay.mayes.7

Obsolete vs current teachings: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/mxcr5fo9rxl29by4wvc9q/Obsolete-and-Current-Teachings-LGBTQ.docx?rlkey=e1dbc3iffua4nwwscpg911uzw&dl=0