Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 173 - Solo Show about the power of encouragement

Listen Later

Recap of the summit

  • What happens when we start having real conversations?
  • Community/support
  • Seeing participants in real life
  • Recognizing our attachments and course correcting
  • Gratitude to guests
  • Gratitude to participants
  • $109 and it is your for eva

    •  

    Saw Brene Brown

    • Seen before
    • Appreciate her realness
    • Familiar stories
    • Story of daughter swimming and conversation around being brave IS winning
    • Are these the conversations we are having with our kids? Are we explicit?

      •  

      What we notice and what we speak

      • Life skills/qualities
      • Negativity bias
      • How often they ARE using tools/skills – it’s just when they don’t if feels so PAINFUL
      • Our expectation of mastery
      • Layers going on under the surface (meaning of behavior with Alison Smith 110, Iceberg Metaphor solo show 129)

        •  

        What it takes to stay focused under the surface

        • Vulnerability and humility – it may not be about you
        • Faith
        • Trust/surrender – let go of your attachment to how you think it should be, and also the idea that you KNOW what’s happening for your child when they haven’t expressed it
        • The idea that all humans ultimately want connecting and to know they matter. All of them. We are hard wired to connect

          •  

          Our language and messages:

          • Week three at MMS we dug into encouragement vs praise
          • Process oriented
          • Really seeing the child
          • Naming qualities with evidence
          • My story this morning with the waffles and “what do I do with the mix?”
          • I notice, I appreciate, I trust/know/have faith
          • Not for the short term/immediate – but for the long term, internal voice (ep 136 with Kelly Bos about how NOT to become the voice of your child’s inner critic) it is about below the surface, about supporting our kids in changing what they believe about themselves

            •  

            I am going to do a webinar this month in the Patreon community to diver deeper into encouragement and I hope you join in! The Joyful Courage Super Fam is a group of parents who are giving $10/month to the podcast to support in the sustainability and create a win/win. Members of the community enjoy monthly webinars and online support through our closed facebook page. Check it out at www.patreon.com/joyfulcourage

             

            Have a beautiful week my friends!! I am going to be watching my tone this week and really working on the sometimes unspoken messages I am sending to my kids when I am less than mindful of what I am doing – and clean up any messes along the way.

             

            Big love!!

            Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

            ...more
            View all episodesView all episodes
            Download on the App Store
            Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensBy Casey O'Roarty
            • 4.8
            • 4.8
            • 4.8
            • 4.8
            • 4.8

            4.8

            247 ratings

            More shows like Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

            View all
            ADHD Experts Podcast by ADDitude

            ADHD Experts Podcast

            1,326 Listeners

            Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled by JLML Press

            Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

            3,662 Listeners

            Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More by Hunter Clarke-Fields

            Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More

            446 Listeners

            Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children by Debbie Reber

            Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

            981 Listeners

            What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms by Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

            What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

            1,001 Listeners

            AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety by Natasha Daniels: Child Therapist, Child Anxiety and Child OCD Expert

            AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety

            1,219 Listeners

            In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently by Understood.org, Gretchen Vierstra, Rachel Bozek

            In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

            249 Listeners

            Raising Good Humans by Dear Media, Aliza Pressman

            Raising Good Humans

            1,895 Listeners

            THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST by Holly Blanc Moses

            THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

            636 Listeners

            Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry by Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson

            Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

            458 Listeners

            Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens by Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

            Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

            821 Listeners

            Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

            Good Inside with Dr. Becky

            4,526 Listeners

            We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

            We Can Do Hard Things

            41,556 Listeners

            This Is So Awkward by Peoples Media, This Is So Awkward

            This Is So Awkward

            328 Listeners

            Divorce with Sam and Leah by Sam and Leah

            Divorce with Sam and Leah

            43 Listeners