Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 263: Solo Show- Belief Behind Behavior Deep Dive Part 1

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This week’s episode is a solo show!

 Takeaways from the show:

  • Perception matters
  • The goal of behavior is to find and feel a sense of belonging and significance
  • Iceberg metaphor
  • Mistaken goals: Undue attention
  • Connection vs. attention
  • Tune into how your kid’s behavior makes you feel
  • Parents contribute to beliefs kids have about connection
  • The coded message behind annoying behavior is notice me and involve me usefully
  • Redirect by involving your kids in a useful task
  • Say what you will do
  • Avoid special services
  • Plan 1 on 1 time with your kids
  • Involve your kids in creating routines

    • Eps 261 | Downloadable Mistaken Goal Chart 

    See you next week!! :)

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