Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 263: Solo Show- Belief Behind Behavior Deep Dive Part 1

Listen Later

This week’s episode is a solo show!

 Takeaways from the show:

  • Perception matters
  • The goal of behavior is to find and feel a sense of belonging and significance
  • Iceberg metaphor
  • Mistaken goals: Undue attention
  • Connection vs. attention
  • Tune into how your kid’s behavior makes you feel
  • Parents contribute to beliefs kids have about connection
  • The coded message behind annoying behavior is notice me and involve me usefully
  • Redirect by involving your kids in a useful task
  • Say what you will do
  • Avoid special services
  • Plan 1 on 1 time with your kids
  • Involve your kids in creating routines

    • Eps 261 | Downloadable Mistaken Goal Chart 

    See you next week!! :)

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store
    Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensBy Casey O'Roarty
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8

    4.8

    246 ratings

    More shows like Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

    View all
    Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More by Hunter Clarke-Fields

    Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More

    437 Listeners

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children by Debbie Reber

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

    961 Listeners

    Therapist Uncensored Podcast by Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD

    Therapist Uncensored Podcast

    1,386 Listeners

    AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety by Natasha Daniels: Child Therapist, Child Anxiety and Child OCD Expert

    AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety

    1,196 Listeners

    Beautifully Complex by Penny Williams

    Beautifully Complex

    349 Listeners

    Calm Parenting Podcast by Kirk Martin

    Calm Parenting Podcast

    1,389 Listeners

    Neurodiversity Podcast by Emily Kircher-Morris

    Neurodiversity Podcast

    421 Listeners

    Raising Good Humans by Dear Media, Aliza Pressman

    Raising Good Humans

    1,859 Listeners

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry by Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

    450 Listeners

    Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam by Dr. Cam

    Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam

    59 Listeners

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting by Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

    121 Listeners

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky

    4,361 Listeners

    We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

    We Can Do Hard Things

    41,337 Listeners

    This Is So Awkward by Peoples Media, This Is So Awkward

    This Is So Awkward

    316 Listeners

    Parenting & You With Dr. Shefali by Dr. Shefali / Maia Wisdom

    Parenting & You With Dr. Shefali

    158 Listeners