Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 548: Oppositional teens with Dr Paul Sunseri


Listen Later

My guest today is Dr. Paul Sunseri. We’re talking about gentle parenting and oppositional teens. We get into how to get your teen on board with the limits & expectations you’ve set. Dr. Sunseri and I do several role plays as an oppositional teen & father to share specific strategies & language. We discuss threatening and physically aggressive or self-harming behaviors and finish on the importance of modeling emotional regulation.  


Takeaways from the show

  • Dr. Sunseri’s new book - Gentle Parenting Reimagined: How to Make it Work with Oppositional Kids 
  • What is intensive family-focused therapy? 
  • Defining gentle parenting 
  • Gentle parenting “harder kids” 
  • Staying firm without being punitive or shaming 
  • What is oppositional defiance disorder?  
  • Your kids will be angry with you at times - part of parenting is telling your children “no” 
  • Getting your resistant teen on board with limits & expectations 
  • Handling threatening and physically aggressive behavior or self-harming behaviors 
  • What to do/say in the moment when your teen is raging
  • Modeling emotional regulation - if you’re modeling explosiveness, they learn to be explosive 
  • Creating a positive, self-sustaining feedback loop with your teen  
  • What should parents look for when finding a great therapist for their adolescent

  • For more show notes, including transcripts, visit our website here.

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensBy Casey O'Roarty

    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8

    4.8

    247 ratings


    More shows like Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

    View all
    ADHD Experts Podcast by ADDitude

    ADHD Experts Podcast

    1,331 Listeners

    Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled by JLML Press

    Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

    3,665 Listeners

    Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More by Hunter Clarke-Fields

    Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More

    443 Listeners

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children by Debbie Reber

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

    982 Listeners

    What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms by Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

    What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

    1,000 Listeners

    AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety by Natasha Daniels: Child Therapist, Child Anxiety and Child OCD Expert

    AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety

    1,214 Listeners

    In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently by Understood.org, Gretchen Vierstra, Rachel Bozek

    In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

    249 Listeners

    Raising Good Humans by Dear Media, Aliza Pressman

    Raising Good Humans

    1,892 Listeners

    THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST by Holly Blanc Moses

    THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

    635 Listeners

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry by Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

    457 Listeners

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens by Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

    109 Listeners

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky

    4,550 Listeners

    We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

    We Can Do Hard Things

    41,493 Listeners

    This Is So Awkward by Peoples Media, This Is So Awkward

    This Is So Awkward

    330 Listeners

    Divorce with Sam and Leah by Sam and Leah

    Divorce with Sam and Leah

    45 Listeners