Bryan and Chris are joined by sex researcher Thomas Whitfield. At 6:00 they talk about the PrEP pill. Does taking the pill change people’s choices in the bedroom? They discuss HIV stigma and ask how long you should wait to tell someone you’re HIV positive. At 17:30 they talk about research into watching porn and how it affects your sex life. Does anyone else prefer watching straight porn? At 30:00 a listener asks if it’s normal to feel upset after your first gay hookup. They each share stories of their first gay kiss. They close out the show with a conversation about dating a bisexual partner.

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Bryan and Chris are back. They talk about the creepy serial killer who was targeting gay men in Toronto and discuss the Ted Bundy Netflix doc. At 8:35 they share details of the brutal attack on Empire star Jussie Smollett. Why are hate crimes like this still happening today? At 17:00 a listener writes in to ask about masc vs femme tendencies. Why not just be yourself and not worry about falling into either category? At 24:30 they admit their go-to karaoke songs and close out the show talking about what it means to be asexual.

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Bryan and Chris are joined by comedian Jessica Henderson. They start with the Oscar nominations and are relieved to hear Lady Gaga got two noms. At 16:00 they talk about watching your own porn tape. Would you go back and watch it or is that too awkward? At 23:00 Chris and Jessica tell the story of how they met and discuss the importance of body positivity. At 30:00 they talk about feeling uncomfortable at the gym. At 33:15 they read a listener question from a girl who thinks her boyfriend may be gay. They close out the show by asking how the gay experience has changed in just the last few years.

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In this special bonus episode from the Betches Sup Podcast, Bryan is joined by Wyatt Harms of the Voices 4 organization and Lyosha Gorshkov, Co-President of RUSA LGBT. They begin by talking about the oppression and torture of queer people in Chechnya. At 7:55 they discuss why the UN hasn’t investigated the violence against the LGBTQ community in Russia. At 18:00 they talk about all the great work that Voices 4 is doing in countries where the LGBTQ community is being oppressed. At 20:00 Lyosha talks about his experience being harassed in Russia because of his sexual preference.

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Bryan and Chris are joined by Garrett Magee and James DeSantis of Bravo’s “Backyard Envy.” They talk about the origins of their “Manscapers NY” exterior design company and dish on what the garden party scene is really like in New York. What’s the difference between landscaping and gardening? At 13:00 a listener writes in about catfishing his partner on Grindr. Is it time to confront him about his cheating? At 24:20 Garrett and James weigh in on the current Rupaul's Drag Race season.

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Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by Betches writer/editor Dylan Hafer aka 50 Shades of Betch. At 4:00 a listener writes in to explain how truck stop sex works. At 11:40 Bryan shares red carpet audio of Rupaul's Drag Race cast members Aquaria, Trinity and Monét X Change and their thoughts on the latest All Stars season. At 16:40 a listener writes in to ask why the guy she was seeing refused sex but insisted she “ride on his ass” instead. They explain how to work your kinks into the relationship over time. At 33:10 Chris shares a story about going to war with a meme Instagram account.

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Bryan and Chris are back for the first episode of 2019. Chris attempted to save the Betches office from a rogue mouse. They update us on their New Year’s resolutions. So far Bryan has failed to go to the gym and Chris has failed to do the splits. At 8:45 they raise concerns that Lady Gaga may not win an Oscar for her role in “A Star Is Born” which leads to some movie discussion and a review of the new Mary Poppins. At 13:50 a listener writes in for advice about trying to meet new friends in a city when you’re planning to leave anyway. Chris shares a weird threatening Grindr message he received this week. At 24:00 another listener writes in to ask about how to find a guy when he moves to New York.

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Bryan and Chris present to you a very gay new year! They’re joined by fashion blogger and influencer Ian Michael Crumm. Ian talks about how he was able to transition his blog and Tumblr into a successful Instagram account. At 19:00 a listener writes in asking how to feel as comfortable when he’s by himself with another gay as opposed to a group of gays.

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Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by The Official Everyone’s Gay Lesbian Correspondent, Daryn Carp. They start by talking about Andy Cohen’s announcement that he’s having a baby through a surrogate. Daryn’s known all along and is finally happy that the cat is out of the bag so she doesn’t have the weight of the secret on her shoulders anymore. At 8:00 they talk about their New Year’s resolutions, or lack thereof. At 13:30 a listener writes in wondering if it’s ok to sleep with a boss? At 25:25 a listener writes in wondering if he should tell his friend that her dad has a grindr profile and loves to send nudes.

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Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by gay jack of all trades, Grayson Gilbert. At 5:00 Grayson explains how he got into kundalini yoga. At 9:30 Grayson explains how he uses his onlyfans.com page for something other than porn. At 21:30 a listener writes in wondering how to make an awkward romantic encounter at an office party a little less awkward. At 28:20 they talk about the awkwardness of uninspired hookups and whether it’s better to pass up those opportunities all together. At 32:00 Grayson explains how he thought he was lactose intolerant but really it was chlamydia.

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