Your money struggles aren’t really about money—they’re about the fears you hide, the dopamine driving your spending, and the emotional baggage you didn’t ask for but carry anyway.

In this episode, I’m joined by Aja Evans, financial therapist and author of Feel-Good Finance, to unravel the messy connection between your emotions and money. Together, we’re calling out fake financial milestones, exposing the real reasons behind your money habits, and breaking free from the self-worth-bank-account trap.

If you’re tired of being stuck in the same financial rut, this episode will give you the tools to rewrite your story and take control.

LINKS

Feel-Good Finance book

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What if the way you think about money isn’t really your fault?

In this episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Husserl, author of The Power of Enough, to unravel the concept of financial DNA—the inherited beliefs, patterns, and habits that shape your relationship with money. Together, we break down why the traditional “abundance vs. scarcity” mindset is outdated and how redefining wealth beyond material possessions can change everything.

Elizabeth introduces practical tools like the Wealth Mandala and Satiation Journal to help you go beyond the numbers and connect with wealth in a way that feels emotional, visceral, and empowering. We’ll also talk about the power of self-compassion, grieving old money stories, and why physical movement might be the missing link in your financial wellness journey.

LINKS

The Power of Enough book

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Navigating money as a couple can be challenging, but what happens when there’s a big age gap? In this Ask Shannah episode, I’m diving into the unique financial considerations for couples with significant age differences. Whether it’s retirement planning, managing income disparities, or aligning long-term goals, I’m sharing real-life strategies from my own relationship and insights from couples I’ve coached. Tune in for practical tips on building a financial plan that works, no matter the age gap.

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The traditional investing world has long been dominated by outdated models and faceless corporations. Enter Eve Halimi and Anam Lakhani, two trailblazing 25-year-old Co-Founders of Alinea, an innovative investing platform reshaping the game. Alinea doesn’t just offer tools for investing—it’s a vibrant community aligning investments with personal values and impact-driven goals.

In this episode, Eve and Anam share their inspiring journey of creating Alinea, tackling industry giants like Robinhood, and redefining what it means to invest in today’s world. They break down why social sharing is the future of investing, how Alinea fosters meaningful connections among its members, and their mission to empower investors to make informed, values-aligned decisions.

Get ready to learn how to invest wisely in this new era and why these powerhouse women are a force to watch in the financial space. Whether you’re new to investing or looking for a fresh perspective, this conversation is packed with insights, inspiration, and actionable takeaways.

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It’s no secret—Americans are set to spend a mind-blowing $1.3 trillion this holiday season. But here’s the real question: how much of that spending is driven by guilt, stress, or emotional habits you just can’t shake?

In this episode, I’m joined by Chad Willardson, a Certified Financial Fiduciary (CFF), the President and Founder of Pacific Capital and Platinum Elevated, a five-time bestselling author, and a financial pro who helps 8-9 figure entrepreneurs take control of their money. Together, we’re diving deep into the chaos of holiday spending and how you can finally break the cycle of overspending.

We’ll talk about why guilt spending feels so hard to stop, why experiences almost always beat material gifts, and how to protect your wallet while still enjoying the season. If you’ve ever felt like your finances are out of control during the holidays, this episode is your permission slip to flip the script and start fresh.

What You’ll Learn:

LINKS

Chad's website and books

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Pacific Capital

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Are you letting fear hold you back from building the wealth you deserve? Fear is sneaky. It whispers lies like, "You'll never be good with money," or "It's too late to fix this." But here’s the hard truth: That fear? It’s costing you—big time. Millions, in fact.

In this episode, we’re uncovering the hidden ways financial fear sabotages your wealth and how to break free from its grip. I’m sharing five fearless money rules to help you take control, build confidence, and stop letting fear make your financial decisions. This is about rewriting your money story so you can finally step into the abundant life you’ve been dreaming of.

LINKS

Grab a Money Coaching Spot. Save $200 with code GOALS by December 23, 2004. Pay off debt, work through the emotions of money, and create a Spending Plan that works.

SPONSORS

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What’s the first thought that pops into your head about money? If it’s not sunshine and rainbows, you’re not alone. The truth is, your brain has been hijacked by years of programming from your family, society, and the endless BS we’re fed about money. That programming? It’s what’s keeping you stuck, stressed, and in a constant cycle of scarcity.

But here’s the kicker: It doesn’t have to be this way.

In this powerhouse reboot episode, I’m joined by Kara Loewentheil, J.D., Master Certified Coach, and creator of the top-rated podcast Unf*ck Your Brain*. Kara’s here to drop the ultimate guide to rewiring your money mindset with tools that actually work.

Spoiler alert: Your wiring—not your willpower—is the reason you’re not where you want to be with your money. But with Kara’s genius Thought Ladder technique, you’ll learn how to flip the script, ditch shame, and start thinking thoughts that actually serve you (instead of sabotaging you).

Here’s what you’ll learn:

LINKS

Grab Kara’s book Take Back Your Brain

Listen to Kara on her podcast Unf*ck Your Brain

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In this episode, I'm tackling a community question from Robbie, a listener who’s making great money with their partner in Chicago but feels stuck in the cycle of saving for big goals—like a wedding, home, and dream honeymoon—only to watch that savings disappear. Sound familiar? If you’ve ever struggled to prioritize and protect your savings for life’s big milestones, you’re going to love this conversation.

I’m breaking down actionable strategies to:

Whether you’re saving for a wedding, a home, a bucket list trip, or all of the above like Robbie, this episode will give you the tools (and a little tough love) to save for the things that matter most without feeling overwhelmed or stuck in “catch-up” mode.

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Have you ever felt like a money conversation turned into a minefield? Maybe it led to stress, silence, or complete miscommunication. Why is money so difficult to talk about—even with those closest to us? And how can we transform these moments into opportunities for deeper connection?

In this episode, I’m joined by New York Times bestselling author Charles Duhigg, whose latest book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection, breaks down the art and science of meaningful conversations. Together, we explore how to approach money talks with less anxiety and more clarity, no matter the situation.

What You'll Learn:

LINKS

Supercommunicators Book

More about Charles

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Giving can be one of the most joyful parts of life, but knowing how to donate money wisely is another story. How much should you give? Where should your dollars go? And how do you ensure your donation is actually making a difference — and not unintentionally causing harm?

In this vault episode, we’re joined by Grace Nicolette, co-host of the Giving Done Right podcast and Vice President of Programming and External Relations at the Center for Effective Philanthropy (CEP). Grace shares her expert insights on how to maximize your giving impact, whether you’re donating during the holiday season or planning for long-term philanthropy.

Grace also offers tips on creating a giving plan that aligns with your values and how to avoid common pitfalls when donating. Whether you’re a seasoned philanthropist or just starting your giving journey, this episode will inspire and empower you to give with intention and confidence.

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