Quote from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: 

"On the surface, the empathy of the narcissist seems to be genuine. With a mastery of social graces and his/her quick study of human nature, the high level narcissistic personality appears to care about our thoughts and feelings... Behind the feigned attentiveness and apparent concern is cold calculation. Pseudo empathy is exquisitely designed by the narcissist to manipulate others so they will fulfill his narcissistic needs."

At a point of awakening you recognize the true nature of the high level narcissist.  Through your research and wisdom, you know the truth. 

You are moving along the pathways of the true authentic self with all of your many creative gifts. 

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