Hi babies...This episode is your big sister’s guide to your first time — the stuff no one really explains but everyone secretly Googles at 2AM.

I’m walking you through:
The Pregame — How to get ready, what to shave (or not), what to wear, what to pack in your bag (condoms, perfume, wipes… yes, we’re going there).

What To Expect — Positions that won’t make you panic, how to stay present, why eye contact matters (and when it’s okay to giggle instead).
Protection 101 — Condoms, lube, feeling safe, and actually knowing what’s going on so you can enjoy it instead of overthinking it.
The Aftercare — How to react after, what to say, how to clean up, and how to take care of you — mind, body, and soul.

Your first time shouldn’t feel like a test you have to pass — it’s a moment for you, not just for him. So light a candle, listen in, and let’s make sure you feel prepared, confident, and safe stepping into this next chapter.

Because you deserve to go in feeling ready, respected, and still very much in charge.