Dating isn’t just about crafting the perfect profile; it’s about doing the inner work to uncover your beliefs, build your self-worth, and own your power. If you believe there are no good men out there, or that you have to prove yourself to be “good enough,” that energy will reflect in the connections you attract.  

In this week’s episode, Xine and I talk about

• How your mindset will set the tone of the kind of connections that you will attract
• How being your authentic self is a magnet in attracting quality connections
• What are the kind of limiting beliefs that are going to block you from aligning with yourself and others
• How dating is a mutual alignment and not about proving oneself

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat!  

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

About the guest ❤️

Xine La Fontaine is a Spicy Love Coach helping ambitious women find and keep healthy love!

Get to know Xine more through her socials...

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lovecoach.xinexo/  

Blogcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/3z2qPY7hQZ5nLGjMlBLrCO?si=f3bb9dde0ba84a52  

Website: https://www.xinelafontaine.com/  

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Relationships, at their core, are like a dance—a continuous process of attunement, connection, and curiosity. True attunement means being present, asking questions, and discovering what helps both you and your partner feel seen, heard, and regulated. It’s not about perfection or wrapping things up neatly every time, but about showing up, communicating, and holding space for growth.

In this week’s episode, Michaela and I talked about...

• What does it really mean to “attune” to your partner?
• Is your communication helping or hurting connection?
• Are you assuming or asking?
• What if growth—not perfection—was the goal?

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Kim will also be having an in-person couples retreat next year and if you want to get more information about, sign-up in the link and be one of the first to know the details about the retreat -  https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

About the guest ❤️

Michaela Rose Soleil (she/her) is a VITAᵀᴹ Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, Tantric & BUTIᵀᴹ Yoga Teacher, ZEGG Forum Facilitator, occasional Hula Hoop Performer, and Energetic Jedi!  She weaves over a decade of personal & professional practice in the tantric, yogic, and energetic realms to create dynamic spaces to help individuals, couples, and groups liberate their bodies, minds, and relationships from the paradigms of domination & control. She is dedicated to helping folks who are poly-curious, poly and dating, and/or are in consensually non-monogamous relationships get unstuck from their outdated relational programming and THRIVE in their unique version of love, sex, and commitment. 

Her desire-based coaching practice and facilitation invites you to shed what is holding you back from living a radically loving and authentic life through the simple practice of returning to the core of who you and your relationships are becoming.

Get in touch with Michaela here... 

Website: https://www.michaelarosesoleil.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/michaelarosesoleil/

Facebook: https://facebook.com/michaelarosesoleil

Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/michaela-rose-soleil777

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When we release the weight of trauma and embrace our raw, authentic selves, we unlock a flow of energy that fuels our wildness, empowerment, and sensuality. 

True wildness isn't chaos—it's a tender, uncompromising connection to life, expressed even in subtle, mindful movements. 

Sexy, too, begins from within; it’s about an intimate relationship with your essence, a playful and unapologetic embrace of your vitality and connection to the world. 

Empowerment stems from deep self-loyalty, the courage to hold boundaries, and the grace to show up for ourselves and others with compassion.

It’s about knowing your worth, trusting your path, and confidently navigating life with love and self-respect, even when it gets messy.

In this week’s episode, Chloe and I go deep into

• What it is to be wild, sexy, and empowered
• How can one embrace their wildness and sexiness
• What does living authentically look like for you

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About the guest ❤️

Chloe De Sousa has over 20 years of intimate space holding. She is a 5rhythms ecstatic dance teacher, dance movement psychotherapist, and Love, Sex, and Relationship coach.  She is passionate about empowering womxn to live their ecstatic sexuality and self-leadership. Her approach is trauma-informed backed by both modern science and ancient tantric wisdom. She has been called “the legend of space holders” and "a queen of the rhythms dance teacher”.  She offers 1-1 coaching and courses (see website) talks internationally on this topic and is a published author.

Get in touch with Chloe here... 

• Website - https://feralgrace.net
• Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/feral.grace
• Free Meditation for Women - https://feral-grace.ck.page/honeypotmeditation
• Free Chapter- How To Live Your Feral Self - https://feral-grace.ck.page/howtoliveyourferalself

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Intimacy, whether physical or emotional, isn't about obligation—it's about mutual desire and replenishment. When approached with love and genuine connection, it can be a source of strength, grounding, and joy that helps you navigate the chaos of parenthood. To truly thrive, you must nurture your children, yourself, and your relationships.

In this episode, Marianne and I are deep-diving into...

• The mental and physical barriers to desire
• Importance of support and self-care
• Reclaiming one’s power and pleasure even as a mother

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now   

Here are also some freebies that you can use to practice and explore your pleasure:

• Activate your Turn-On Workbook - https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/jpz5m61s12
• The Essential Pleasure Tools PDF - https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/mjg7cc0pvx

You can also sign up for the upcoming 2025 Phoenix Rising Retreats here: 

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About the guest ❤️

Marianne works as a Sex & Intimacy Psychologist, Sexologist, and Hypnotherapist with people from all over the world. She is one of the top 1% of holistic, somatic, and integrated sex and relationship therapists in the world. With her degrees, knowledge, and lived experience she is helping women transform the negative programming, blocks, problem, and pains, such as sexual anxiety, low libido, and vaginal pain into sexual enjoyment and ultimate freedom.

Get to know Marianne more here... 

Website - https://www.unleashyourwildness.com

Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/unleashyourwildness/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/marianne.katwijk

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@MariannevanKatwijk

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Awakening isn’t about reaching a place of constant bliss or escaping life’s challenges—it’s about transformation. It’s the death of the ego, a stripping away of illusions we hold about ourselves, which can feel brutal but ultimately leads to deeper love and truth. True awakening demands facing everything we are, both light and shadow.

In this episode, Luna and I talk about...

• What does awakening really mean
• How this liberation and newfound awakening affect the collective
• How do you know where to start your awakening journey

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About the guest ❤️

Luna is a Sensuality and Relating expert- teaching, coaching and creating events & immersions in the field on Sensuality and conscious connection for many years.  

A certified VITA Integrated Sex, Love and Relationship coach, Tantric Yogini, event manager and designer, Luna has fused together her many skills and passions into projects dedicated to the liberation of people through the erotic, through relationships and through the shadow work of kink and taboos.  

Luna runs retreats and events around the world and is the headmistress of the Sensual Arts School, an online school for Tantra and Sacred sexuality that is queer-friendly and kink positive.

Connect with Luna here…  

Website - www.sensualartistry.com  & www.sensualarts.school  

Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/sensual.artistry/ & https://www.instagram.com/sensualartsschool/

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Life throws challenges our way, and it's easy to get stuck in action mode, pushing through stress and overwhelm. But true empowerment lies in returning to our core – our pleasure, intuition, and aliveness. Life’s challenges can disconnect us from our true selves and how practices like meditation, rituals, and pleasure can help us return to a state of flow and aliveness.

In this episode, Isabel and I talk about...

• Finding yourself again amid chaos
• What it means to truly trust your body
• How can pleasure and pain co-exist in growth
• Approaching life with the right energy

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About the guest ❤️

Isabel is a sexuality, empowerment, relationships and leadership mentor, and the host of the CLAIMED podcast.

Isabel is a passionate entrepreneur, with her background in somatic psychotherapy, tantra, coaching, she offers a deep embodied expertise on pleasure and eroticism as a way of creating a more fulfilled life, with ourselves and in our relationships.

She guides individuals and couples to embrace their natural magnetism and to feel safe to open up the body to experience more love, pleasure and abundance.

Isabel is known for giving effortless permission to people to access their pleasure and ignite their erotic aliveness, and for the ripple effect that it has in all areas of their life.

Connect with Isabel here…

Website - https://www.isabel-lamar.com

Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/isabel__lamar/

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When life feels overwhelming and our emotions are intense, many of us instinctively disconnect from play, pleasure, and presence. Yet, these very elements can be powerful tools for resilience. True pleasure isn't about escaping our pain or numbing our emotions but embracing them and finding the beauty within.

In this episode, Donna and I dive deep into...

• Reclaiming Play and Pleasure
• Finding Stillness in Overwhelm
• Balancing Emotions and Pleasure
• Listening to Your Body

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Here is a resource that you can use to access your pleasure better: 

The Essential Pleasure Tools PDF

• https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/mjg7cc0pvx

About the guest ❤️

Donna is a transformational embodiment coach and mentor for leaders, changemakers, and visionaries with diverse experience and training in psychology, shamanism, Buddhist meditation, tantra, and bodywork.

Donna is passionate about creating safe spaces where deep intimacy with ourselves, others, and the world around us can truly unfold.

Connect with Donna here…

Website - https://www.donnamariella.net/ 

Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/donna.anicca/

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Life can feel like a balancing act between staying true to ourselves and adapting to what others expect from us. 

When we live by others' rules—what we "should" do or how we "should" act—we often lose our sense of self. Without firm boundaries, we allow others to shape our lives, fearing we’ll lose love or belonging if we stand up for ourselves. But setting boundaries is essential for self-respect and personal peace.

Remember, being kind to yourself and honoring your needs isn’t selfish; it’s foundational to living a life that genuinely reflects who you are.

In this episode, Erin and I go in-depth about...

• Why Boundaries Matter and How to Start Setting Them
• Comparison as the Thief of Joy
• Self-Acceptance and Speaking Your Truth

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Here are some free resources or materials that you can also use that may be helpful in your journey of self-love and boundary setting. 

Activate your Turn-On Workbook

https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/jpz5m61s12

The Essential Pleasure Tools PDF

https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/mjg7cc0pvx

Fear Embodiment & Pussy Activation

https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/zhh6bjk14o

About the guest ❤️

Erin Berry is a conscious relationship and intimacy coach, workshop and retreat leader.  

She is here to shift the narrative around relationships and intimacy and is all about creating the juiciest relationships, starting with the one we have with ourselves. She is a somatic and embodiment coach who believes the key to our healing is through the body. She loves to help women connect with their divine feminine nature and unique sensual special sauce.

She’s here to debunk the myths and set the record straight about what your body is capable of and help you unleash it for yourself.

She helps heal relational wounds through her coaching as the same issues that block you from pleasure, block you in other areas of life.

She’s passionate about this work because it was her own personal journey from living a pleasureless existence in the wrong relationship to living life on her terms, with mind-blowing pleasure, and healthy deeply connected relationships.

Connect with Erin here…

Website - https://www.erinberrybliss.com/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/eberryblissful/

Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/erinberrybliss/

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Sometimes we spend years learning about ourselves through words—talking, reading, even sitting with therapists—and while it helps, there’s only so far the mind alone can take us. True transformation starts when we look inward and feel what’s within us, learning to recognize emotions like anger, grief, or fear as they live in our bodies.

In this episode, Jin and I talk about...

• Why just talking isn’t enough
• How hidden emotions shape our lives
• Living for ourselves or others
• If pain holds the key to growth

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Here is a free practice link that you can use:

Grounding & Balancing Practice

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About the guest ❤️

Jin is an intimacy coach who specializes in empowering individuals to heal wounds related to intimacy and foster authentic self-expression in relationships and life. Her expertise addresses common challenges, including performance anxiety and sexual incompatibility. She is a certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach and VITA™ Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach.

Learn more about Jin here…

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@intimacywithjin  

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jinhongmba/ 

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Life is more than just going through the motions. It's about digging deep, listening to what your soul truly desires, and finding the courage to break away from the things that don't bring real fulfillment. Often, we fall into habits that numb us—whether it's overworking, overindulging, or overconsuming—because society encourages it. 

In this episode, Karin and I discuss about... 

• Discovering the power of reconnecting with your inner self through Tantra
• Breaking free from the societal norms and habits that numb you
• The importance of turning inward, doing the inner work, and challenging the expectations

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About the guest ❤️

Karin Nelson is a leading "new-paradigm" marketing consultant who specializes in bringing to market brands that are aligned with a growing customer demand for ethically sourced and sustainable products and services that support their personal development journeys. 

As a Tantrika who is also a certified VITA coach (Layla Martin's "Vital Integrated Tantric Approach"), she's dedicated to integrating tantric principles across all aspects of her life and in her businesses and teachings. She's currently acting Chief Marketing Officer for a wellness & beauty brand called "Be.u.tiful" and an empowerment coach for women and men in the realms of business, dating, love and relationships.

Learn more about Karin here…

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/karinkristina/ 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/karinkristinanelson/ 

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