You’d think retreat leaders wouldn’t “need” a retreat themselves… but the truth is, we’ll never be done learning, deepening, and choosing each other. 

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.

• Why we signed up for a six-month mastermind and retreat, even with resistance.
• Why even leaders need to surrender and be held and how it changed our intimacy.
• How emotional release practices create deep safety and intimacy in partnership.
• What is the erotic charge of polarity — and how containment and surrender can lead to full-body orgasms (yes, fully clothed).
• Why you don’t have to wait until crisis to invest in your relationship.

If you’ve been craving more intimacy, trust, and desire in your relationship, this episode is your sign.

🔥 Reignite the flame. It starts with a single step. Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.
💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call today to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is right for you.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like roommates than lovers? The truth is… your spark isn’t gone. It’s waiting to be remembered.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how presence, polarity, and sacred intimacy can bring back desire—without starting from scratch.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why your spark isn’t gone and it’s buried under stress, routine, and disconnection.
• How to bring presence into your day and stop performing for love.
• Desire doesn’t die, and it suffocates. Learn how to create space for erotic energy to rise.
• The everyday acts of service and devotion that rebuild intimacy (it’s not about grand gestures).
• How to shift from feeling like roommates to reawakening passion together.

If you’re longing to feel more alive, connected, and deeply desired again… this episode is your invitation.
 

🌹 Ready to reignite your spark?

💫 Book an Exploration Call to explore joining us at a Phoenix Rising Retreat.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how the natural dance between the masculine and feminine can transform your intimacy, trust, and erotic connection. Whether you’re new to polarity or deep in your practice, this conversation offers insight, lived experience, and tangible steps to bring more presence and passion into your relationship.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why the feminine opens most when she feels safe, seen, and fully held
• How to lean into your core essence without falling into gender stereotypes
• How to spot when trauma patterns are pulling you out of polarity and what to do about it
• What are the little daily acts that build trust and deepen attraction
• How we weave these practices into private couples retreats at Phoenix Rising

If you’re craving more trust, more passion, and more magnetic attraction in your relationship…

💫 Book an Exploration Call to explore attending a Phoenix Rising Retreat, where we’ll co-create your journey into deeper intimacy. https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

What if sacred sexuality started with eye contact, breath, and truth-telling? This is what Tantra really looks like, and for couples who are ready to feel more. 

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we debunk the biggest myths surrounding Tantra and explore how it can become a living, embodied practice that fosters presence, trust, and sacred connection.

💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why Tantra isn’t just about sex and what it actually is

• How to drop performance and embody presence in your relationship

• What sacred sexuality feels like when it’s rooted in truth

• How to bring Tantra into your daily life (not just the bedroom)

• Why healing childhood wounding is essential for deeper intimacy

If you’re longing to move beyond performance and into real connection, this conversation is your next step.

💫 Book an exploration with us to explore joining us at Phoenix Rising Retreats: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we guide you through the experience of a private couples retreat, revealing what happens behind the scenes — from intention-setting to integration. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to do this work in a sacred, supported container… this one’s for you.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• What makes a private retreat different from group work
• How to set powerful intentions and boundaries before your retreat begins
• How sacred sexuality sessions are shaped around your pace and nervous system
• Why having no group pressure helps you go deeper, faster
• What the land, the rituals, and the privacy create together

💫 Ready to explore a private retreat for yourself? Book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About Us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack the dynamics of sacred polarity and share how presence, safety, and honest communication create the foundation for deep, lasting intimacy.

💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why emotional safety is the foundation for feminine surrender
• What grounded masculine leadership looks and feels like
• How to lead with presence instead of pressure and why it changes everything
• How to stop micromanaging and start trusting polarity
• How Phoenix Rising Retreats help couples reconnect and build a sacred union

💫 If you’re craving more safety, more turn-on, and more sacred connection in your relationship, book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-calll

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 
 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 
 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

From the sacred fire of Phoenix Rising Retreats… comes the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast. In this week’s episode, we open up about one of the most tender edges in a relationship: how to invite your partner into deeper intimacy, without nagging, pushing, or trying to fix him. We unpack real examples from our journey and offer grounded, heart-led tools you can start using today.
 

✨ Here’s what we cover:

• The shift from “I wish he would…” to “Here’s what I desire.”
• Why men often shut down in the face of information overload—and how to invite with embodiment instead.
• What happens when we respect his pace, instead of forcing a timeline
• How the feminine can lead with love without taking on the full emotional load.
• Why retreats remove pressure and open up space for presence, healing, and connection.
• Private vs. group retreats: navigating resistance, overwhelm, and finding the right fit.
   

💫 If you’re ready to feel truly seen, met, and connected with your partner, book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Even after years of tantra, pleasure work, and healing, you can still find yourself having disconnected sex, obligation sex, or even “Let’s just get it over with” sex.

And you’re not broken for that.

In this episode, Pleasure Is a Practice: Why Good Sex Doesn’t Just Happen, we pull back the curtain on our own sexual evolution, what we used to believe was “good sex” (think: drunk, performative, porn-scripted), and how it’s now become something radically different.

Some other things we tackled are…

• Slowing down until the nervous system says yes
• Listening to the body instead of chasing orgasm
• Honouring the grief, rage, or tenderness that arises mid-pleasure
• Giving and receiving pussy or cock massage without pressure
• Expanding intimacy through energy, breath, and presence

This isn’t about fixing you.  You already know your body is sacred. This is about creating the kind of space where that sacredness gets to be witnessed, met, and fully felt…together.

Another thing, if you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call.  Something you might like is that when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Real talk… Most couples wait until they’re hanging on by a thread before they even think about going to a retreat. We get it—we’ve been there. But what if we told you that waiting until things hit rock bottom is one of the biggest mistakes you can make for your relationship?

 In this episode, we dive into a raw and honest conversation about..

• Why do most couples wait too long before going on a retreat
• How can you shift from crisis mode to a proactive, pleasure-focused connection
• How important is it to know the 5 different types of intimacy
• What are the retreat myths that are just not true

And so much more! 

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...
 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Let’s talk about blowjobs.

Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice.

In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us.

And it’s not just about blowjobs. It’s about what happens when you remove pressure, drop the old stories, and let truth and turn-on take the lead.

Quick summary into this week's episode: 

• The difference between performing and feeling
• How porn culture and shame hijack connection
• Why sacred sex has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with safety
• How feedback can be foreplay
• And why your body will always tell the truth (if you’re willing to listen)

And many more!

If you’re someone who’s already been on this path…

Who’s done the workshops, studied the teachings, and experienced sacred sex in its fullness…

But you know there’s another layer waiting to be unlocked…

We’d love to invite you deeper.

Our private couples retreats are for the ones who are ready for the next level of turn-on, tenderness, and truth. It’s one-on-one work with us at our lakeside sanctuary in Ontario—a space designed for sacred re-patterning, embodied pleasure, and soul-deep partnership.

💫 And as a thank-you to our listeners, if you book a call with us before July 31st, and schedule your retreat by October 31st, 2025, you’ll receive $1000 off.

👉 Book your private retreat exploration call here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com