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If your marriage feels emotionally flat, disconnected, or stuck, you’re not alone.
In this episode, we’re talking about Eros energy vs Thanos energy in marriage, -two powerful forces that shape desire, emotional intimacy, and connection over time.
You’ll learn:
This episode is especially for those who want a marriage that feels emotionally and spiritually alive, -not just functional.
✨ If you’ve been asking, “Why do I feel so disconnected?” or “How do I bring desire back into my marriage?” -this conversation will give you clarity, hope, and a new way forward.
🤗 Thanks for listening and being a part of my circle. Please share with your friends, so they can create more joy in their lives too.
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
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Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Are you still married. but no longer fully in your marriage?
In this episode, we talk about one of the most painful and unspoken places many women find themselves in: straddling. That exhausting emotional limbo where you haven’t left your marriage, but you’re no longer fully choosing it either.
You’re functioning. You’re doing life together. But intimacy, desire, friendship, and emotional safety feel distant, -or gone altogether.
If you’ve ever thought:
This episode is for you.
We’ll explore:
Most importantly, I’ll walk you through four powerful steps to move from ambivalence to integrity, so you can stop living split inside yourself and begin rebuilding clarity, peace, and self-trust.
This is not about forcing yourself to stay or pressuring yourself to leave.
It’s about choosing wholeness, honesty, and courage, -whatever that ultimately reveals.
✨ Peace lives on the other side of your internal split.
Key Scriptures Referenced:
Referenced Research & Thought Leaders:
Next Steps:
-If this episode stirred something in you and you want clarity about your marriage, I invite you to book a free coaching call with me. You don’t have to navigate this alone.
-If you know a woman who is quietly suffering in this space, please share this episode with her. Sometimes being the “angel” for someone simply means sharing some helpful support.
🤗 Thanks for being a part of my circle.
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Who you are in your relationship matters more than you may realize.
In this episode, we explore the concept of your relationship identity, -how you see yourself, who you believe you are, and the role you unconsciously play in your marriage and other close relationships.
Many women are still operating from identities formed decades ago, which are often rooted in survival, people-pleasing, resentment, or victimhood…without ever realizing it.
If you’ve ever thought:
this episode is for you.
We’ll talk about:
This is sacred, grown-up relationship work that can be a game changer for you. You don’t need your partner to change first. Transformation begins when you do.
🤗 Thanks for listening, please leave a rating and review, and share with a friend!
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Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Have you ever thought, “How are we still arguing about this?”
You’ve talked it through.
You’ve explained yourself. Y
ou’ve tried to be patient.
And yet… the same argument keeps resurfacing.
In this episode, we explore why recurring arguments happen and how to finally interrupt the cycle, -without blame, pressure, or needing the other person to change first.
Using the Self-Coaching Model, you’ll learn how repeated conflict is often driven not by the issue itself, but by an unexamined thought that keeps creating the same emotional reaction.
This conversation will help you:
If you’re ready to stop having the same fight on repeat and start responding with calm, confidence, and self-trust, -this episode is for you!
🤗 Thanks for listening, please share with a friend!
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
In this episode, we explore why your brain needs intentional reflection, how gratitude and growth build emotional resilience, and why confidence is less about motivation and more about self‑trust.
Using Scott D. Clary’s idea of confidence as a self‑credit score, we talk about how keeping small promises to yourself builds real confidence — and how unrealistic goals quietly erode it.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
You don’t need more motivation. You need more trust in yourself. And that trust is built one kept promise at a time.
🤗 Thanks for listening, please share with a friend!
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
I love the new year and a fresh new beginning, and I can't think of a better topic for today's show.
Our environment matters. I know my mental health is always better when my home is neat and organized!
So in today's episode, I sit down with my friend, Tracy Hoth, who is a professional organizing coach, -to unpack how to simplify your home and better enjoy your space.
Learn her 5 simple steps to downsize your home in a way that honors your memories, supports your future lifestyle, and frees you from the overwhelm of too much stuff.
Create a home that feels peaceful and supportive for this stage of your life.,
Whether you’re downsizing, resetting your space, or craving a fresh start, this episode will give you practical tools and perhaps that gentle nudge that you need to get started!
What we cover:
Where to begin when you feel overwhelmed
How to release guilt around sentimental items
Navigating adult children’s belongings
Creating systems that fit your personality
How to build a home that feels peaceful, not perfect
Listen in and take your next step toward a lighter, more intentional life.
🤗 Thanks for listening, please share with a friend!
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Hello my friends, Merry Christmas! -and welcome to an extremely special edition of my Mama's making a difference segment.
I am so honored today to have my niece, Annie Smith, join us. I have known Annie most of her life. She is a remarkable human with an incredibly huge heart and the most amazing faith. She has been through some very difficult things in her life, but is someone who continuously rises up to her challenges and strives for the best within her.
I recently became aware of her current circumstances through a facebook post.. She and her husband moved out of our area a few years ago so I don't see her often anymore. But I was so touched by her post,, and I knew I had to have her on the podcast… …truly, I couldn't think of a better Christmas message for you , than to have her share her story.
Listen in and learn about Annie's remarkable gift. It will touch your heart and strengthen your faith in the good in this world.
If you love this episode: Please share it with a friend, leave a review, or come join me inside my coaching programs where we help you create incredible relationships, -so you can make your second half, the BEST half! ❤️
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier. Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half.
This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review: Click here to listen in iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women/id1715566489 Scroll down until you see the reviews, and then click the button that says, “Leave a Review” Leave your review! Easy peasy!
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at: Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Merry Christmas Week!🎄
In today's episode, we're diving into a relationship skill most of us were never taught… how to receive.
Why does accepting love, help, affection, -or even a simple compliment feel so vulnerable for so many of us? And how does learning to receive transform the intimacy and connection in our closest relationships?
What you'll hear today:
This episode will help you understand your patterns with more compassion, shift old narratives, and slowly open your heart to the love and support God has always intended for you.
If you love this episode:
Please share it with a friend, leave a review, or come join me inside my coaching programs where we help you create incredible relationships, -so you can make your second half, the BEST half! ❤️
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Happy 2 Year Anniversary to Happy in the Middle!
In this special anniversary episode, we’re celebrating two beautiful years of Happy in the Middle! As the Christmas season unfolds, I’m pausing to reflect on the growth, grace, and tender lessons the Lord has woven into my life over the past year — and I’m inviting you right into that space with me.
I’m sharing ten powerful truths I’ve learned (or relearned) on my own midlife journey — lessons about faith, self-trust, emotional maturity, relationships, purpose, and the quiet transformations that happen when we let Christ’s light reach even the hidden corners of our hearts.
You’ll hear about:
Whether you’re listening with a cup of cocoa, sitting by the tree, or sneaking in a moment of stillness, I hope this episode feels like a warm hug, a breath of fresh air, and a reminder that you are growing right on time.
Here’s to two years together — and to everything the Lord has in store for the next chapter!
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
Today’s episode is a special one—I’m sharing our replay of November’s “Ask Jane” live coaching call!
These are your questions, answered live, and there are nuggets that everyone who listens can learn from.
Inside today’s conversation, we explore:
The desire for connection vs. the fear of being the one who changes first
If you love this format and want to submit your own question for a future Ask Jane episode, stay tuned—there will be another call coming in January!
Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation
Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.
Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave.
So, if you’re ready to grow, join me and learn how you too, can overcome guilt, resentment, disappointment, and enjoy the fruits of creating a life well and beautifully lived. Let’s gooo!
3 Simple Steps to Leave an iTunes Review:
Get my FREE GUIDE, How to End the Fight: https://www.jane-copier.com/EndTheFight
Get my Free “Conversation Roadmap, a Step by Step Guide to Talk about Any Topic, Without Starting a Fight.” https://www.jane-copier.com/conversation-wkbk
Find Jane at:
Website: https://janecopiercoaching.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachformidlifewomen
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jane.copier.coaching/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LDSChristianMarriageCoach
Email: [email protected]
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