You know when you are around someone that truly just radiates love? When you talk to a person like this, you can see that they truly care about you by the way they look at you and how they listen to you. It is easy to feel truly connected to this kind of person, and the positive shift they make in the world around them as they go about their lives is palpable. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the concept of connection and how to truly connect with others. To do this, we need to have a clear lens. We compare how common situations look in our lives when we have a cloudy lens, which cripples connection, with how they look when we have a clear lens geared towards connection.

Related Episodes

Connection vs. Detachment: Fulfilling Our Own Needs Without Becoming Islands of Selfishness  

Four Pillars of Wholehearted Parenting We Apply to Any Problem 

Putting Connection First 

Putting Connection With Our Spouse First

Books and links we mentioned:

Robcast Episode: Pete Rollins - An Introduction to Love Part 1

Bonds That Make Us Free // C. Terry Warner

Hold on to Your Kids // Gabor Mate

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Review of the week from Myka Almazan:

I love these mamas, their vulnerability and the amazing tips, stories and info they share on this podcast! I look forward to each new episode each week. Every mama should be tuned in. LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!!!

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In this mini magic episode, Felica shares with us some helpful wisdom from Deepak Chopra’s Agelss Body, Timeless Mind. She walks us through what to do when you are experiencing a negative situation, and gives a really useful, easy exercise to try out.  Reframing how we are looking at something can be truly enlightening:)

RELATED EPISODES AND BOOK LINKS

Ageless Body, Timeless Mind // Deepak Chopra

Finding Joy and Enthusiasm in Every Day

Seeing Ourselves Clearly in the Role of Mother

EPISODE SPONSORS

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Therappy App

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Review of the week from moro2450:

Gold, PURE Gold!

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! For all the time and energy that you put into this podcast. I’m not being dramatic in the slightest when I say this podcast has changed my life. My friend shared an episode with me after she saw me having a power struggle after power struggle with my toddler. I have been hooked ever since...

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Many parents WANT to love parenting, but they find themselves disenchanted with much of what parenting entails when they are actually in the trenches of it. In this episode, Felica discusses parenting with Rachel Nielson, creator and host of 3 in 30: Takeaways from Moms. She offers us wonderful tips and insights into how to find the joy in parenting when you feel like its not easy to find.

BOOKS AND LINKS

Simplicity Parenting // Kim John Payne

Spiritual Serendipity // Richard Eyre

RELATED EPISODES

Why Boundaries Are Key to Wholehearted Living

How to Develop a Peaceful Routine with Kids // Felica Allen from Find the Magic Podcast

How to Fall Back In Love With Motherhood When It Feels Hard // Tessa Brown

How to Coach Your Children Through Their Big Emotions With Geogia Anderson from knowhowmom.com

EPISODE SPONSORS

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Review of the week from brun.hanna:

A Must-Listen Podcast for ANYONE

Taralyn, Felica and Katelin and their guests bring so much wisdom in every episode. I always feel encouraged and empowered with actionable steps and tools and I recommend this show to literally everyone I know! Thank you!!!!

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There are so many wonderful ways to help our kids feel a sense of belonging in our home. This time of year offers so many opportunities to cultivate that. In this episode, we share with you a few new tips that we use in our own homes to really take advantage of the season.

RELATED EPISODES

Creating Roots Through Family Traditions

EPISODE SPONSORS

Nurished supplements is our sponsor this week and we are so excited to share them with you! They create whole food supplements for adults and kids. Our favorites are their super food juices and MIGHTY chocolate milk. They taste amazing and give us peace of mind as parents to little ones. They are organic and have dairy and plant based options available. Check them out HERE and use code FINDTHEMAGIC15 for 15% off your order.

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Review of the week from Ridges Rock:

Fantastic podcast with fabulous people

I love this podcast; I’ve pulled so many golden nuggets of truth in each podcast! Thank you!

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As parents, we all want our kids to be healthy. However, when it comes to food, many parents feel stuck because of the power struggles that come up around meals, and many parents end up frustrated, feeling that their kids are picky eaters. In this episode, we discuss the antidote to this issue with psychologist and family food expert, Gitte Holm Moller.

She offers us amazing concrete solutions to help create a healthy family culture around food, and she does it in a very approachable way. 

BOOKS AND LINKS:

You find more from Gitte on her website, realfoodhero.com and on instagram @realfoodhero

RELATED EPISODES

French Kids Eat Everything (and So Can Yours!)

HOW TO Eat With Intuition

Making Dinner Meaningful and Uncomplicated With Claire Tansey

EPISODE SPONSORS

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Review of the week from audie bo:

I sure found the magic in this podcastt

Thank you for this podcast! I love the calm encouragement I get from listening!! The tips and tricks are practical and I always learn something I can use to be a better mom and wife! Makes me so happy to listen!

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How can we help our kids reach their full potential while still nurturing our relationship with them? It’s easy to cross over the line between encouraging and over pushing. In this episode, we address several listener questions, including this one. We also discuss a few tips on not being swept away in consumerism, and responding to our kids with love when we need a reset and find ourselves reacting with anger.

BOOKS AND LINKS:

Hold on to Your Kids // Gabor Mate

The Child Whisperer // Carol Tuttle
The Awakened Family // Shefali Tsabary

The Conscious Parent // Shefali Tsabary

Entitlement Trap // Richard and Linda Eyre

RELATED EPISODES

Parenting Boys Part 1

Parenting Boys part 2 

Four Pillars of Wholehearted Parenting We Apply to Any Problem 

Systems and Values for Easier Days and Stronger Family Connections (Entitlement Trap by Linda and Richard Eyre) 

EPISODE SPONSORS

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Review of the week from Hollyamber:

I’m listening from the start

I’m a new listener but ofer the last couple weeks I’ve listened to several of the episodes and it has been exactly what I needed. It’s all so relatable and helpful...

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The earth has seasons, the moon has cycles, the day has rhythms of light and dark, warmth, and cold. As humans, we also live with cycles. Women have monthly cycles, we all live in seasonal cycles, and we have daily cycles as well. Each season of part of these cycles comes with natural places for rest, motivated work, and play. However, we often internalize the message that we constantly need to push through our need for rest or stillness and constantly achieve. This pushing can lead to burnout and frustration.

In this episode, we discuss the idea of leaning into cyclical living instead of fighting against it with Meridith Bienvenue. She explains how we can actually harness the power of the different cycles that we live with and learn to honor our need for both healing calm and empowering movement. It requires trusting ourselves, honoring our bodies and our minds, and flowing with life.

BOOKS AND LINKS:

You can connect with Meridith on her website, https://www.shewhocan.com and on instagram @shewhocan

The Universe Has Your Back // Gabrielle Bernstein

RELATED EPISODES

Discovering YOUR Life Essentials

Finding Joy and Enthusiasm in Every Day

EPISODE SPONSORS

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Review of the week:

Kimberly

Mind Readers

These ladies continue to read the minds of their listeners and bring meaningful, inspiring, healthy content each week. They’re so in tune with the ebb and flow of life and help all of us listening find pockets of calm in the chaotic storms of daily life.

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Have you ever heard about someone succeeding, and instead of feeling happy for them, you felt slightly nauseous like you ate something rotten? Maybe you even felt like you wished they would trip a bit over their success? Jealousy is an incredibly unpleasant emotion, and yet it’s a common human experience. In a world where we see the best of everyone’s lives on the internet, how can we navigate the inherent comparisons? Is there any gift we can glean from feeling jealous?

In this episode, we wrestle with these ideas and walk you through how to recognize jealousy, allow it to point us to clarity of things you desire (or maybe by questioning it, you realize things you don’t want after all), and then how to move past it to living authentic to yourself. We also talk about how to perhaps get to the point where you can experience genuine happiness for others’ successes. Just maybe;).

BOOKS AND LINKS:

A New Earth // Eckhart Tolle

Gifts of Imperfection // Brene Brown

Radical Acceptance // Tara Brach

RELATED EPISODES

Finding Joy and Enthusiasm in Every Day

Our Daily Meditation 

Essentialism / How to Do Less But Better

Discovering YOUR Life Essentials

EPISODE SPONSORS

MamaZen: Mindful Parenting App

If you’re experiencing impatience, anger, anxiety, and feel frustrated with your kids, then you need to get this app. MamaZen will teach you how to control your negative emotions so you can deal with your kids’ difficult behavior with more love and patience. You’ll feel calmer, happier, and more connected to your kids. Some of our favorite sessions are Reduce Mom’s Guilt, Patience for Never Ending Bedtime, and Overcome Anxi​​ety and Overwhelm. Sessions are only 2-15 minutes long, and even 1-2 times a week makes a huge difference.

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Erica Golem

Life Changing

This podcast has drastically changed my perspective on life. It is essential to my role as a mother, wife and human. Thank you!

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We often receive the message that we can have it all; we can do it all. Social media messages, societal expectations, and our own self talk often feed the lie that we can do EVERYTHING. When we don’t live up to the unrealistic expectation that we can do everything and succeed at everything, there is a cost to our mental health.

In this episode, we discuss this topic with New York Times best selling author, Greg McKeown. He helps identify the lie that we can do everything, and instead offers a path of wisdom, balance, and priorities instead of the wild racing that we often indulge in when we are trying to say yes to everything. He gives us very applicable steps on how to make doing what truly matters to us easy.

BOOKS AND LINKS:

Greg’s Website: https://gregmckeown.com

Effortless: Make It Easier to Do What Matters Most // Greg McKeown

Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less // Greg McKeown

RELATED EPISODES

Essentialism / How to Do Less But Better

Discovering YOUR Life Essentials

EPISODE SPONSORS

MamaZen: Mindful Parenting App

If you’re experiencing impatience, anger, anxiety, and feel frustrated with your kids, then you need to get this app. MamaZen will teach you how to control your negative emotions so you can deal with your kids’ difficult behavior with more love and patience. You’ll feel calmer, happier, and more connected to your kids. Some of our favorite sessions are Reduce Mom’s Guilt, Patience for Never Ending Bedtime, and Overcome Anxi



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Review of the week--we love our dad listeners!

Carguy1982

Loved the playful parenting episode. As a father, that is a subject I face all of the time. Learned a lot about how to approach it better and more effectively. I added many of the great suggestions in playing and interacting with my kids and it has been amazing.

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Connection is at the center of so much of our lives and relationships. In this episode, Taralyn, Felica, and Katelin wrestle with the concept of how to maintain connection with others and live wholeheartedly, while still releasing what we cannot control and detaching from the outcome. Detachment is a popular word in some self-help philosophy, and it is a valuable concept because it allows us to not cling onto things we are unable to control. However, each of us values deep connection. We share metaphors we have come up with to help us wrap our minds around these ideas and how to love deeply, give without resentment, and express our needs to others. How can we sacrifice beautifully for those we love, while still staying whole ourselves? How can we follow our dreams without becoming an island with empty relationships? We talk about possibilities of finding a balance on this topic.

BOOKS:

Nonviolent Communication // Marshall Rosenberg

Loving What Is // Byron Katie

A New Earth // Eckhart Tolle

RELATED EPISODES

Finding Joy and Enthusiasm in Every Day

Our Daily Meditation 

EPISODE SPONSORS

MamaZen: Mindful Parenting App

If you’re experiencing impatience, anger, anxiety, and feel frustrated with your kids, then you need to get this app. MamaZen will teach you how to control your negative emotions so you can deal with your kids’ difficult behavior with more love and patience. You’ll feel calmer, happier, and more connected to your kids. Some of our favorite sessions are Reduce Mom’s Guilt, Patience for Never Ending Bedtime, and Overcome Anxi​​ety and Overwhelm. Sessions are only 2-15 minutes long, and even 1-2 times a week makes a huge difference.

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Kjp32611

This podcast saved my motherhood!...They dive into incredible topics, they read and discuss books I’ve read or are on my to-read list… I just cannot say enough good things about this podcast and these women. I listen while doing laundry, walking, making dinner...wherever I can. The mamas are like having coffee with best friends -- they keep it SO REAL. And during the pandemic -- bless you girls. This time is so challenging, sometimes I feel like I am barely getting by -- but they make me laugh because they remind you everyone is going through this thing called life and motherhood -- even now.

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