Honesty & Eating Disorders

Lying often becomes part of the picture in eating disorders, even when honesty is something a person deeply values. It can show up in small moments or bigger patterns, usually not out of intent to deceive, but as a way of managing fear, shame, or pressure. 

Today, we look at why transparency can feel so difficult and what sits underneath common secrecies, as well as how recovery can help nudge the balance towards openness. We really hope that this episode helps ease any guilt, and encourages anyone who resonates with the experience to see how honesty can make support frameworks that much more impactful. 

Topics covered:

• Why honesty can feel difficult

• Common patterns of hiding, minimising, or saying “I’m fine”

• What lying is protecting in the short term

• Fear and shame: the role they play in secrecy

• How malnutrition impacts thinking and perception

• The eating disorder voice vs. the authentic self

• Impact on relationships and rebuilding trust

• What helps support honesty in recovery and with loved ones

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Disclaimer

Please keep in mind we're not medical professionals, and the podcast content reflects our own experiences and opinions, as well as that of our guests, so it shouldn't be taken as medical advice. If you're struggling with an eating disorder or disordered eating, please reach out to a medical professional to discuss your own situation and get professional support tailored to you.