Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

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In this episode, David and Eileen discuss the pressures caused by the perfectionist mindset of recovery to "get it exactly right" or "be the hero" that ultimately works against recovery by not actively practicing vulnerability. In its place, they talk about what a progress mindset can achieve in opening up to our partner, being honest with ourselves, and showing our weaknesses in strength through communication. 

In the second half of the episode, David and Eileen also share a recent example from their lives where conflict prompted them to reassess the progress they needed to make, rather than falling into feelings of failure and perfection. 

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebui

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In this episode, David addresses a recent comment saying that people who betray others are betrayed themselves, and couldn't help hurting others as a result of that passing down. In other words: Hurt People, Hurt People, and we can leave it at that.

But can understanding the wounds caused to those who then betray settle the matter? Or can that be a block for some in recovery who don't want to take full accountability? David looks at three various levels of accountability on this topic to explore what can go wrong and what can go right in this stage of recovery. 

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

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In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the difficult steps that come when two hurt people want to come together to have a hard, honest conversation. This often can come up when the betrayer needs to reveal a new truth to their hurting partner in order to develop a new level of honesty. What gets in the way of being fully honest, and how can we adjust to keep our word?

David and Eileen explore the challenges both in the betrayed and the betrayer to work through this difficult conversation and ultimately come out closer together once honesty has been given. Hope and healing are possible if the hard work can be done in truth.

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

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In this episode, David talks about his story over the course of the common milestones in recovery:

- The 90-day mark

- The 6-month Mark

- The 18-month Mark

He addresses how these milestones work and the mistakes and successes that he had in the process of recovery.

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

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In this episode, David and Eileen address some common questions from spouses who are frustrated that their partner has turned to the church, and only to the church. Is simply attending church enough to turn your life around and achieve success in recovery? What about the addict who says they have God now and everything is good? David and Eileen tackle this difficult subject by addressing the full scope of recovery and balance in taking care of all the gifts given to us.

If you struggle with spiritual topics, this episode may challenge some of your beliefs or wounds from the church and how it handles addiction or disruptive behavior. We would love to hear from you or have you on a future podcast. Please see below for info on how to sign up

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal

In this episode, David and Eileen take a listener's question about her recent discovery of her husband's secret porn addiction. Since this discovery occurred after he promised never to do it again, the listener is wondering what to do next and how to establish boundaries. David and Eileen bring in their own experience setting boundaries in Porn/Sex addiction through their early days of discovery to help avoid pitfalls that often happen in this process. 

Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at [email protected] to sign up or submit.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

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In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the ultimate killer of intimacy post-betrayal: defensiveness. This shows up mostly when the betrayer is trying to do things differently, but their past actions are brought up. When this happens, it can spiral them into shame or defensiveness. The betrayed has every right to bring these wounds up, and navigating these conversations WITHOUT defensiveness is key to healing and intimacy. But how do you do that? David and Eileen give you some tips.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal

In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the scenarios that the betrayer needs to do when they decide to make changes and stop lying and hiding. They also discuss different ways to communicate with each other as trust is being built. Their final topic is what will need to happen if the lying doesn't stop, and the reality of each situation in recovery.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal

In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the differences between being vulnerable and offering reassurance. They discuss how sometimes it sways too far to one side ("I got this, don't worry") or to the other ("I have no idea how to do this"), and where most assurance comes from the discovery of honesty. 

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show

Ask Us a Question!

WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen

💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david

❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call

GROUPS

⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un

❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group

RESOURCES

💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop

💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-

⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal

Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching

Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal

In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the common roots of porn addiction and what keeps us from connection when healing from it after betrayal. David and Eileen talk about their journey through the process of healing and explain what does and doesn't help in the conversations.

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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.

Support the show