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Therapist, writer and mental wellness consultant Dr. Natalie Jones is here to talk TOXICITY! We discuss what it means to be toxic, what fear based dating is and why we do it, why we overlook red-flags in romantic relationships and friendships, what defines unhealthy behaviors in relationships, narcissistic traits to look for in others and ourselves, and how to overcome all of it.

THEN Robyn shares her most recent PURELY MENTAL full body c*mgrats and we are SO PROUD!!

TW: Abuse, narcissism. However, Dr. Jones turns painful experiences of narcissistic abuse into healing nuggets and we highly rec*mmend this episode.

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Sarrah Rose, founder of Tantric Activation joins us to discuss how to do Tantric Sex solo and partnered. We discuss why she got into tantric sex after giving birth to her daughter, how she used it to feel more energized and to facilitate many big awakenings in her life. Sarrah shares about how using breath, sound, movement, and focus together can change the way you have s*x. Finally we discuss bringing meditation into sex, the difference between tantric and non-tantric orgasms, along with how to achieve intense tantric orgasms.

Before Sarrah, we have fantastic c*mpanion Stephanie on to talk about having her first O at 28 years old and then posting about it ON THE GRID on Instagram. We are so proud!

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Today's guest is Nicole Victoria, financial expert, money coach, and CEO of the international financial literacy company No Budget Babe. We're talking the importance of being financially independent and all the ways to get there, including getting rid of debt, paying off student loans and investing in both property and stocks. Nicole shares how she went from $40,000 in debt to a millionaire, why she believes budgets are like diet pills and why "The Makin Money Moves Method" (her 3-month coaching program) is a better way to master your finances without a budget and without restriction.

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Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and author of 'ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship' Dr Ari Tuckman joins us as we explore the connection between ADHD and relationships. We talk about how late in life diagnosis' can affect your relationships, finally realizing you aren't "crazy, stupid, or lazy", and the importance of understanding your or your partners ADHD. We're discussing the ways that ADHD can impact relationships where only one partner is diagnosed, and Dr Tuckman tells us about how ADHD can impact both your solo and partnered s*x life.

Get yourself a copy of Dr Tuckman's books and keep up with his work at adultadhdbook.com

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C*m see Remy headline her first show at Stand Up NY on Dec 2 @ 8:00pm! Get your tickets here!

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Spoiler Alert: 'You' Season 3

We're talking OPEN RELATIONSHIPS with creator of the IG account @queersextherapy & CEO of The Expansive Group, AASECT certified sex therapist Casey Tanner and comedian Khalid Rahmaan.

Casey guides us through the different types of non-monogamous relationships, how to ask for one, how to tailor them to better suit your current relationship, and things to consider before opening up and how therapy can help you and your partner create a good foundation. Casey shares her experience with open relationships, including making the decision to close it temporarily.

Then we 'katch up with Khalid' and c*mgratulate him on his first open relationships! We discuss what his dating life was like before open relationships, how he approached the topic with partners, and what his dating life is like now. We hear about some of the challenges he has faced throughout the experience and Khalid gives some advice on overc*mming them.

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We decided to do this episode following Texas legislature enacting their stringent abortion law (SB8) and it is more necessary than ever now, with more than 100 abortion restrictions enacted just this year.

We hear from six incredible C*mpanions from all over the US (and one in Peru) who share unique stories of abortion; either their own, a parent's, or a friend who they helped.

Thank you to Kelsea, Hayley, Noelle, Ilana, Kaylee & Giulia

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We are honored to have Anna Lee, co-founder and Vice President of Engineering at Lioness on to talk about the world's first smart vibrator that helps improve your orgasms through biofeedback technology; using it to track, compare, and deliver you your orgasm data!

We discuss the three different types of orgasms; the avalanche, volcano, and the ocean, what they look like on a graph and how the features that you can use to explore your orgasm data further. We discuss how the toy can be used anally and in conjunction with other toys and still track your orgasm, as well as the many experiments Anna has performed. Finally, we discuss the features of the Lioness app and how user's can opt-in to share their data with researchers to help further what we know about sexual health.

Four our c*mgrats this week we have a National Coming Out Day exclusive with c*mpanion Abby! We hear all about their experience topping a girl for the first time and making her c*m. Abby talks about what their coming out journey was like, including coming out to themself, their mum, and their friends. Finally, we discuss solo sex, what toys Abby prefers, and the struggle with manual masturbation.

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Last week we talked to comedian Dylan Palladino about balding and his newly shaved head; this week we are getting a medical expert's knowledge on all things hair-loss.

Our guest is extremely special; none other than New York Board Certified Dermatologist with 42 years of experience, son to Nanny, and dad to Remy and Charlotte (and their brothers), Dr. Joel Kassimir.

The iconic 'Dr. K' teaches us about everything you need to know about hair-loss; the different types and causes, various methods on how to fix it including hair transplants, medication, topical creams and wigs, and many other incredible questions from the Cumpanions.

We also get to learn his journey into dermatology, how he feels about his own hair-loss, and then a story from our Cumpanion Sydney about shaving her head and donating her hair!

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We're talking balding with comedian+ podcaster Dylan Palladino!

Dylan tells us about his momentous decision to shave his head and his hair-loss journey that led him to it. We discuss the emotional side of hair loss, the efficacy of Propecia, and the myths about its connection to erectile disfunction. Dylan tells us about his own bouts with ED and the importance of bringing up taboo/embarrassing conversations amongst cis men and the benefits of sharing stories.

Finally we talk body hair, beards, and pube maintenance!

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This week we are talking anal penetration and "Peg The Patriarchy," a slogan coined by sex educator Luna Mattatas but made uber viral by Cara DeLevigne last week, wearing the stolen phrase in a Dior outfit on the red carpet of the Met Gala.

We talk to Luna about what she intended the phrase to mean when she coined it in 2015 and what Cara has taken it to mean as well as the Twitter discourse surrounding it and how she felt seeing it stolen. We also discuss why the term "pegging" itself can be problematic, its origin story with former guest Dan Savage and various other terms to use instead.

We then learn all about pegging welcuming back Lola Jean, sex educator and instructor of Remy's masturbation class, who teaches us about using fingers, using a strap on, and toys to use when first experiencing anal. We also talk to Brian who receives anal often from a cis female partner and tells us about how he got into it as well as his preparation for a date.

TW: Sensitive content

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