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We're talking to stand-up comedian and actor Irene Tu, who has NEVER had an orgasm and is probably okay with that! Irene tells us about how she is "almost never horny" and how the societal pressure for her to cum lead to her going down a rabbit hole that nearly ruined her life. Irene shares with us why she feels she may be Asexual, though she does want companionship, and we discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and foreplay leading up to a sexual experience. We hear about why she prefers giving orgasms to receiving them, and if she thinks SHE could date someone who doesn't cum. Finally we discuss constantly crushing, Irene's coming out story, and Remy receives a rec*mmendation from Irene!

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Recummendations in this episode: Portrait of a Lady on Fire

New Tik Tok besties Marissa and Drew (!!) c*m on to talk about their whirlwind Tik Tok friendship [inspired by Drew's viral video overhearing Marissa's friend's talking sh*t on her]— what Marissa did when she found out, how she finally met Drew, and the new meetup/friendship group that she started in the aftermath; @nomorelonelyfriends.

We discuss making new friends; how to do it, where to do it, and why rejection therapy can be really helpful! Finally we discuss one of our guest's EXTREMELY Gen Z first time c*mming story and the other's delightfully recent cumgratulations!

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Recummendations in this episode: Bo Burnham's Inside (Netflix)

Hacks (HBO Max)

Pushing Daisies (HBO Max)

We're talking pivotal life moments with life coach and motivational speaker Raia Carey (better known as "Coach Carey") and How C*m's own Social Media superstar and recent college graduate Raechel Murray. Raechel joins us for CumGRADuations to celebrate the graduating classes of 2020 and 2021 and talk about graduating during the pandemic, what school has been like since the beginning of Covid, the college experiences she feels she missed out on, and her future plans now that she has graduated.

Then we chat with Raia about life coaching; when to do it, how it can help to bridge the gap between therapy and psychiatry, and how it encourages clients to break down and accomplish their goals. Finally, Raia tells us about coming out as a "Hybrid" in fourth grade, Instagram's new feature that allows you to put your pronouns in your bio, along with learning how to politely ask for someone's pronouns.

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We're talking Israel + Palestine with your favorite Jewish/Palestinian lesbian married couple, OR the only one you know -- the "El Salomons!" Comedians Jess Salomon and Eman El Husseini join us to discuss how they met, what it was like for them in the early stages of their relationship, coming out to their families and how the history between Jews and Palestinians helped bring them closer together. We discuss what is currently going on in Israel and Palestine, and the importance of educating yourself instead of just blindly following the media/ erratic social media posts. Jess and Eman tell us about how Jews and Palestinians view the LGBTQ+ community, both in the past and presently, and the effects this has had on their relationship; Eman shares why her parents didn't come to their wedding and Jess shares the difficulties her family had to overcome with her dating a Palestinian.

CW: The Holocaust, ethnic cleansing, homophobia

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Comedian and season 1 guest Ester Steinberg is back for a special cumgratulations: we are celebrating her first Mother's Day! She tells us about the bizarre techniques that the internet suggests for inducing labor, how often she masturbated during pregnancy, and what breastfeeding was like for her. Finally, hear why Ester recommends everyone have an open relationship with their partner before they get engaged.

Follow Ester @Ester.Steinberg , listen to her podcast Stand Up Mom, and see her special Burning Bush here!

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You've requested it, and it's FINALLY HERE! We're talking anti-depressants and sexual dysfunction with psychiatrist + sex therapist Dr. Barbara Bartlik and comedian Andrew Collin! Andrew tells us about his journey with anxiety, depression and medication. We cover the sexual frustration that comes with the loss of orgasms while on SSRIs and how he has learned to cope, with sex positions that work best for him. We discuss weighing out the pros and cons when it comes to maintaining sexual and mental health, and Dr. Bartlik offers advice for anyone dealing with similar issues.

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Thank you to Cumpanion Natalie in Northern California for sharing her Cumgratulations/engagement!!

We're talking sensitivity with comedian crooner JR De Guzman (Netflix, Kevin Hart's Hart of the City). From his heart to his uncircumcised head JR knows sensitivity and joins us for a heartfelt conversation on falling in love deep and fast, the 5 love languages, and the importance of talking about these topics among other men. We get confronted about our relationship with ourselves and our capacity to love others while learning to establish healthy boundaries. How to change the narrative from finding someone to learning how to be, love, and care for yourself as "the one".

We get existential while we consider our purpose as humans on this earth and how we have gotten so disconnected from nature's balance (especially in urban contexts). Finally, we discuss uncircumsized dick shaming, and how high school was hell for everyone with "abnormal" genitalia when actually, we all had shitty Sex Education and didn't really know what "normal" reproductive organs actually look like.

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Thank you to our team member Roxana González for sharing her Cumgratulations/engagement!! Click here to follow our blog Aftercare & sign up for our newsletter

Environmental things:

• Learn further about the causes and effects of climate change, and what short and long-term solutions there are. FutureLearn and edX are some sites that offer (mostly free) environmental science courses.
• Keep up with current events. You can begin by following @cnnclimate, @intersectionalenvironmentalist, and @unclimatechange on Instagram.
• DONATE to or spread the word about climate justice organizations such as The Coalition for Rainforest Nations, 350.org, and Direct Relief International.
• Articles: How to Stop Global Warming (NRDC), Why the Fight for Climate Justice is a Fight for Justice Itself (Landscape News)
• Documentaries: How the Climate Crisis and Systemic Racism are Deeply Connected (Youtube), Environmental Racism Explained (Youtube) A Life on our Planet (Netflix), Kiss the Ground (Netflix)

Undeniably hilarious comedian and producer of FX's new documentary 'Hysterical,' Jessica Kirson joins us on this exciting episode. We discuss her new film, in which she stars in alongside fellow iconic female stand-ups. Hysterical chronicles the endeavor of reaching success in a male-dominated industry (which is relevant for all women, honestly) and the importance of lifting each other up, and recognize that there is space for everyone.

We learn how Jessica was personally selected by Robert DeNiro to teach him how to perform stand up comedy on the set of The Comedian, and how she subsequently became a producer.

We also discuss Jessica's sexual journey: Cumming early in life, coming out later in life, having sex with men but no orgasms, as well as how she became a mother of four daughters when she never intended on having children at all!

She shares why she never wanted to have kids as well as why she is so happy that she did.

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Thank you to our Cumpanion Barbara (20s, Hungary) for sharing her cumgratulations with us!

This week we are joined by internationally known disability advocate and stand-up comedian Pamela Rae Schuller. Pamela tells us about growing up as a person of short stature with Tourettes and OCD, "The cute kind of Tourettes!" But also the kind that caused a tic strong enough to break her neck. We discuss the portrayal of disability in the media and how it perpetuates misconceptions that promote stigma. We talk about how children with all kinds of disabilities struggle to fit in and often get thrown into special ed, and the differences between the structural shaming of these kids in public school and the boarding school that helped her fall in love with comedy by fully embracing who she is. Pamela tells us about her experiences talking in schools and the difference between the way adults and kids respond to her talks. She spills the tea about her experience with Peloton Bikes and the hate she received after her New York Post article, which was meant to raise awareness around inclusion and accessibility for fitness brands, especially during this pandemic. Finally, we hear about imposter syndrome and discuss finding the balance to nail new opportunities. Also on this episode: Cumpanion Cumgratulations! Thank you to Becky (40s, Florida) for sharing your stories with us. CW: Sexual Violence, Offensive Language

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This week witnessed Khloe Kardashian's unedited photo "scandal" and we talked to two NYC photographers, Dave Krugman and Jenni Walkowiak, about the hyper-visual age we live in and the psycological effects it has on us.

The need for better online personas has made photoshoots an ordeal we must all go through, whether it's for LinkedIn, your CV or your new Instagram profile picture. Have you ever had a meltdown because you couldn't communicate with your photographer? Or because you looked like shit and you felt awkward 'cause you don't really know how to pose for your body type? Or your nose looked crooked? Well, we have. We talked to our two photographers about taking better pictures from a male and female perspective. They give us useful tips on how to pose, and tricks for a more comfortable photoshoot (spoiler alert: a pet helps with anxiety). Will this help with our body image issues? Join us for this awesome and eye-opening episode.

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Thank you to our Cumpanion Hunter (25, Massachusetts) for sharing her cumgratulations with us!