Most people don’t struggle with money because they’re irresponsible. They struggle because their entire financial life is running on willpower and memory—which are terrible tools for long-term success. In this episode, Shari breaks down why motivation-based money management always collapses by March, and how to build real financial systems that actually stick.

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Inside, we walk through the four core elements of a “sticky” money system—automation, boundaries, visibility, and realism—and why these matter more than discipline. You’ll learn how to design money flows that match your real income timing, energy cycles, and household complexity, instead of trying to fit your life into a one-size-fits-all budget.

Shari also shares the Minimum Viable Money System: the lowest-lift, most functional framework for managing money without spreadsheets, shame, or perfection. If you’ve ever felt like you “should” be better with money but can’t seem to make habits stick, this episode will help you shift from trying harder to designing smarter.

If you’re ready for money to feel supportive instead of exhausting, this is where it starts.

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