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How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)


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How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)

Do you feel that your woman is pushing you away?

Do you see that your girlfriend is often telling you that she needs more space than usual? Or do you think that you may be overly clingy but aren't sure?

Suppose you see a sudden pattern of her making up excuses or wanting more distance from you and are unsure why; you are in for a special episode. Apollonia Ponti will share guidance on recognizing signs of excessive clinginess in a relationship and establishing a healthy balance of attention.

Apollonia has seen many clients destroy their relationships, with their excessive clinginess.

Apollonia dives into specific behaviors and characteristics that may render an individual excessively clingy within their romantic partnership; Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis. She provides practical strategies for managing moments of clinginess and transforming them into constructive interactions.

This practical advice will help you on proactive steps to prevent inadvertently pushing one away. This episode is a valuable resource for fostering harmonious and balanced relationships.

So, if you are struggling with over-clinginess, to stop being clingy with her, or how to know if you are in the first place, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

  • 0:32 - The start of the podcast: How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship).
  • 1:10 - When you're too clingy, you constantly seek validation from a woman. A clingy man will fish for compliments and seek validation of her feelings and never will try to give her the space that she needs.
  • 2:01 - A woman Likes to have space and think. Just like any man or person, space in the relationship is crucial. If you want her to think about you and know what you're doing, keeping that space will let her think more about you.
  • 2:47 - A clingy man will overanalyze their relationships through the amount of sex they are having. He will think that with less sex, the less the person is interested. Of course, sex in the relationship will decrease over time, but it doesn't mean that they are not attracted to you anymore.
  • 3:08 - Another huge sign of clinginess is when you give all your attention to her and lose sight of yourself. They will all lose track of their life, neglecting their goals and friends and family. This is a massive turn-off to a high-value woman; she sees this as an immature trait that a man has.
  • 4:08 - When a man is clingy, he will ignore the red flags from a woman. A clingy man will miss all the red flags in the relationship and cling to the idea that she will change for him as the relationship progresses. But this rarely happens.
  • 4:54 - There are no standards for the woman he dates. He doesn't care if her values align with his, and most likely will neglect his values for her, just get obsessed with the idea of getting her that he doesn't see if she's interested in the first place.
  • 5:29 - What is the right amount of attention to give to a woman? It all comes down to your life. Make yourself busy, do what makes you happy by exploring your hobbies, and provide time to hang out with friends and family. A balance in your life is what makes a woman attractive to you.
  • 6:19 - When there is a healthy balance in your life, the push and pull become easy. You don't need to make plans when going out with her; it comes naturally, and you don't wait for her to talk or text you. And when she does, you will have some time to tell her. Personal development is what makes a woman attracted to you.
  • 7:12 - A balance in your life varies from person to person. It all comes down to one thing is: having full days and not left wondering. When you're in the beginning stages of dating a woman, you need that balance of communication and mystery.

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