When something bad happens, it’s a normal reaction to worry about all the ways it may affect you. How can you overcome feelings of self pity? How can you continue to thrive in all aspects of your life? On this episode, Shane explains how a recent injury could have been his downfall, and shares the thought processes that kept him moving forward.

If you want to be a powerful person over the long haul, this is not a sprint. It’s a marathon. - Shane Kidwell

 

Three Things We Learned From This Episode

• Expand your skill set (03:08- 06:09)
  Blue collar jobs like those in the fire and police departments require their people to have vast skill sets. This means that when someone’s ability to do a job is impaired, they’re still able to contribute to the team in some way. You can apply this to business. Develop a range of skills that allow you to keep busy when your primary role is impossible. 
  
  
• Eliminate self pity (08:48- 10:14)
  Often, we stop ourselves from thriving in the future because we’re so caught up in what’s happened in the past. Remove the reminders of painful memories and start concentrating on what you’re still able to do.
  
  
• Invest in yourself (16:30- 17:14)
  The summer market is great for the mortgage business. Make sure your success now continues to benefit you in the coming months. Invest in your business and your team so that times aren’t tough later.

Negativity is a trap, and it can seriously hinder your success in the years to come. Make sure you’re not holding yourself back from greatness in the future by having a negative outlook now. Prepare yourself by fostering a range of skills, and continue investing in yourself. You’re capable of doing amazing things—you just have to believe in yourself.