How Not to Screw Up Your Kids

How to Talk to Children About Loss


Listen Later

Whilst the release of this episode is immediately after the death Queen Elizabeth II, the approach I suggest is intended to cover any situation where a child comes into contact with the death of someone - whether that’s a direct relative, a friend, neighbour, public figure etc. 

For some the current world event may mean you are talking about death for the very first time and your child might be really still quite young, for others the Queen’s death might be bringing up old sadness for a loved one who has already died, others might have people in their lives who are currently unwell, or your children are asking questions about your own longevity. 

I’ll talk you through the eight principles to be mindful of when starting, and maintaining those conversations about death.    

 

Here are the highlights: 

(00:33) The Queen’s death may prompt difficult questions 

(03:02) Be honest, clear and direct 

(05:54) Children’s biggest fear is abandonment 

(10:34) Crying make us human 

(14:12) Communication is key 

(17:22) We don’t always have the perfect answer 

(20:27) There’s no one size fits all 

(23:22) We want our children to know the facts 

💚 Let's grow our village together, please share this episode with at least one friend

💚 Complete the listener poll to let me know what you'd like in future episodes

💚 You can watch the Bucket Emptying Episodes on Youtube

💚 Access the free resources mentioned in the episodes

💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

How Not to Screw Up Your KidsBy Dr Maryhan

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

5 ratings


More shows like How Not to Screw Up Your Kids

View all
Happy Mum Happy Baby by Giovanna Fletcher

Happy Mum Happy Baby

379 Listeners

The Motherkind Podcast by Zoe Blaskey

The Motherkind Podcast

118 Listeners

Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware by Jessie Ware

Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware

1,587 Listeners

Happy Place by Fearne Cotton

Happy Place

1,167 Listeners

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day by Elizabeth Day and Sony Music Entertainment

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

1,305 Listeners

Let's Talk Neurodivergent Kids with Izzy Judd by Viral Tribe Entertainment

Let's Talk Neurodivergent Kids with Izzy Judd

17 Listeners

Parenting Hell with Rob Beckett and Josh Widdicombe by Keep It Light Media / Spotify Studios

Parenting Hell with Rob Beckett and Josh Widdicombe

997 Listeners

Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor by Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor

83 Listeners

The Mid•Point with Gabby Logan by Spiritland Creative

The Mid•Point with Gabby Logan

328 Listeners

Dish by Cold Glass Productions

Dish

627 Listeners

Therapy Works by Julia Samuel

Therapy Works

63 Listeners

It Can't Just Be Me by Podimo & Audio Always

It Can't Just Be Me

13 Listeners

The Louis Theroux Podcast by Spotify Studios

The Louis Theroux Podcast

584 Listeners

Begin Again with Davina McCall by Begin Again

Begin Again with Davina McCall

534 Listeners

The Teen Commandments by Sara Cox

The Teen Commandments

82 Listeners