What makes a relationship actually work?

In this episode Shalma Ainaa and Wan Imar break down how they’ve built a 9-year relationship that’s equal parts growth, grit, and goofy chaos.

From their annual “relationship post-mortems” to navigating public pressure, they spill on how they fight, communicate, and stay grounded—even after the honeymoon phase: real work, real love, and radical honesty.

🔑 In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to build a healthy relationship that actually lasts (hint: it’s not just about love languages)

• The conflict resolution rule they use to avoid blowups

• What emotional safety really looks like in a long-term relationship

• How to stay connected when you’re both ambitious, busy, and kinda burnt out

• The biggest green flags in a relationship (that no one talks about)

Whether you're in love, healing from it, or dreaming of the right person—this one’s for you. ❤️

Follow @shalmaainaa & @wanimarizzat

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Hosted by Maggy Wang, this podcast is where real talk meets real life — messy, mundane, and everything in between.

From everyday struggles to smashing through stigmas, we know you're here for the unfiltered conversations.

There will be laughter, there will be awkward silence and maybe some tears.

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