一曲來自秋天、關於愛的心意。相愛之前，可還有層層關卡～你愛我、我愛他、他愛他…。maya’和Dana聊起了彼此對於「喜歡」和「愛」的觀點。無論你是單身、有伴、還是已婚，要經營一段關係，永遠需要雙方一起努力～
那麼賽夏語裡面，有哪些和喜歡、愛相關的詞彙呢？如果要用賽夏語告白該怎麼說？跟著maya’與Dana一起認識關於愛的語言吧。
✦節目資訊
▷主持人：maya’ a taboeh hayawan羅媛、Dana William Roe
▷語別：賽夏語、華語、英語
▷單詞：
kayzaeh kita’en 漂亮
kapa’onhaelan 朋友
nakhara ’a’inowa’ yo ’okay pa’onhael 曖昧
monhael kakita’ ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila 一見鍾情
SaSekla’ honaehnge: ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila 日久生情
minowa’ ’okay pakra:am hisiya 暗戀
hinSaylo’ ka ta’oeloeh ’inisiya 暈船
kaSlatar manmanra:an 約會
manabih ’in nonak a hininowa’ 告白
’a’inowa’ ’isa:a’ ma’onhael ila 交往
maehrahrang 討論、溝通
’a’iyalatar 聊天
▷句子：
So’o kayzaeh kita’en. 妳很漂亮。
ya:o minowa’ ’iSo’on. 我喜歡你。
▷對話：（本文非內容逐字稿，僅供參考）
maya' : ’ita’ saboeh kayzaeh, yako maya’ a taboeh hayawan.
Dana : Hello, yako Dana, I am Dana. And you are listening to
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Dana : Yes, it’s a brand new cross language podcast brought to you by ilrdf Indigenous languages Research and Development Foundation.
maya' : 「沒那麼簡單，就能找到聊的來的伴。」
Dana : That sounds great! Is that a love song you’re singing?
maya' : 對，但就是一個充滿秋天氣息的一種等待愛的歌曲。 上週我們有教聽歌的族語，Dana還記得嗎？忘記了齁？Ok! I can teach you.
maya' : 好，聽歌叫做bazae’ ka kapa:tol。
Dana : bazae’ ka kapa:tol.
maya' : 對。在第二集的時候，我記得Dana你好像有提到說，你是在台灣認識你現在的太太？想知道你們怎麼認識的呢？
Dana : Well. 如果妳有問她，她應該說我們在圖書館見面。But it is not true. We met out in a bar through friends. Actually the first time I met her, she was speaking Italian with her friend, and I thought she was speaking Spanish. So I went and started talking to her, and she’s like “Excuse me? I don’t speak Spanish, you can talk to my friend.” And then she walked away. But then the second time we met, I thought she was very very beautiful, so I wanted to sit next to her and draw her a picture, and that's what I did. And then she left again.
maya' : 如果女生收到這個畫，然後你說她很漂亮，我相信當時還不是老婆的Sabung一定是非常的心動。教你「漂亮」賽夏語叫做kayzaeh kita’en.
Dana : kayzaeh kita’en.
Dana : Yes, Very important to say nice things to your partners. So I will say that to my wife when I get home.
maya’ : 很好。那談戀愛大部分的人好像都…不是好像，是一定都會先從朋友開始做起。那Dana像你這個愛情的過程當中，你是屬於「一見鍾情」就是monhael kakita’ ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila，還是「日久生情」就是SaSekla’ honaehnge: ila ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila，你是哪一種？
Dana : Wow, That's a good question. I would say when I was really young, I was just very very shy, and I wasn’t able to do much. But then I grew up, and realized that if you don’t go for it, you will never get what you want.
maya' : 那我剛剛好就是相反的那一種。像我就是一個很不會主動表達，就是屬於很容易都在處於暗戀對方的一個狀態。那其實也是在這個默默欣賞的過程當中，也會不斷跟對方就是聊天、交流，然後開始認識到對方內心，除了外表以外的東西就是內心，是不是跟自己很合得來這樣子，才會進一步的釋放一些自己的喜歡讓對方知道。那當然還有另外一個，就是我也很怕自己受傷，就很怕我主動出擊，結果對方其實沒有那個意思就會有點受傷。Dana你是怎麼樣追到你的老婆？
Dana : Ah! That's a good question. I left Taiwan to do some traveling, but my wife and I had already exchanged numbers. And while I was traveling, I really missed her. Even though I had just met her. So I sent her a poem. And I was very nervous but she responded very well. So yep that's how we started dating.
maya' : So romantic! 那Dana你覺得，對你來說like喜歡跟愛love有什麼樣的差別呢？
Dana : Yea, I think there is a big difference, you know when you like somebody, you just… you like them you want to spend time with them, you still are a kind of independent though. But when you love someone, that you build a life together, and you become a part of them, they become a part of you.
maya' : 講的很好。就是你到了愛的那個部分，就好像你就會把你自己的某一部分給對方，那對方也會把他的某一部分交給你這樣子，對。那像我也是覺得，我覺得喜歡就是相處起來就是很舒服、很輕鬆、不會有壓力，那我就會很喜歡這個感覺，或者是說會覺得對方很有趣啊，就會很喜歡跟這個人待在一起。
maya’ : 也是跟Dana講的一樣，就是關於愛的話，就會又再更進階一點。就像說的就是好像必須要經過某一種可能承諾，或是說經過某一些過程之後，你才會慢慢的發現到說，你好像對這個人不只是喜歡，more than like。
maya’ : 那剛剛就「喜歡」這個字，因為在賽夏語裡面，以前老人家不太會直接的就表達說愛這個字，所以我們其實比較多是會用「喜歡」比較委婉一點，那「喜歡」在賽夏語裡面叫做minowa’。
Dana : minowa’
maya’ : 但是有的時候啊，在這個過程裡面，在我們探索愛的過程裡面，我們不一定一下子就可以遇到喜歡彼此的那一個人。有的時候像我就是會一直在一個暗戀，就是minowa’ ’oka’ yo ’okay pakra:am hisiya，就是喜歡他但是又沒有讓他知道；或者是有時候有些人也會像現在很常講的「暈船」，就是為某一個人，就是很欣賞他的一舉一動，他說了一句話，就把他視為偶像，然後就會整個就是很像粉絲沉迷他，就有點像hinSaylo’ ka ta’oeloeh ’inisiya就是為他頭暈，就有點暈船這樣子，對。那像要交往之前，一定會經過，像是kaSlatar manmanra:an就是會出去走一走、約會，然後到後面就是真的確定了之後，就會告白，就會manabih ’in nonak a hininowa’ 才會開始進到一個關係。
Dana : Oh! That's right. It happens when you have feelings for someone, but he or she doesn’t know or there is just no spark. But if you are together, there are more issues between you two, such as arguments, disagreements and just big life choices. So maya’ 在愛情中你會如何處理衝突呢？
maya' : 我自己是一個很’angiS，有時候我的脾氣蠻不好的，就是我很難生氣，但是一要生氣呢我就會非常生氣，所以我通常都會先讓自己冷靜下來，然後就先給自己一些時間。然後，等到自己情緒平穩之後，才開始跟對方maehrahrang，就是有點像溝通、討論我們發生的種種事情要怎麼樣解決，就是了解彼此的想法，去尊重對方，應該說彼此尊重啦，就知道自己跟對方的感受怎麼樣，然後再一起去maehrahrang去討論說怎麼樣我們才可以有好的一個討論、好的一個結果，讓我們的關係可以好好的發展下去。
Dana : Wow! Well, in a perfect world, I would like to do that as well. But what I have learned is in a relationship, you need two things: 1: communication and 2: forgiveness.
maya' : 像剛剛有講到「溝通」這個字，在賽夏語裡面我們可以用「討論」這個字去講叫做maehrahrang。
Dana : maehrahrang
maya' :對，或是比較輕鬆一點的，可能是在沒有情緒的狀態下，好好的聊聊天這種，叫做’a’iyalatar
Dana : ’a’iyalatar
Dana : All right. We have learned a lot of sensitive words today about relationships. Let’s recap. So when I get home today, I want to tell my wife that she is very beautiful, how do I say that?
maya' : So’o kayzaeh kita’en. 妳很漂亮。
Dana : Ok, now let’s talk about some of the words we were just learning before. How do you say ‘friend’?
maya' : kapa’onhaelan. 朋友
Dana : How about ‘flirting’? Or when two people like each other but they are too scared to say?
maya' : nakhara ’a’inowa’ yo ’okay pa’onhael. 就是好像互相喜歡又沒有在一起，像是「曖昧」
Dana : How about ‘love at first sight’?
maya' : mohael kakita’ ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila. 就是第一次互相見面就喜歡了，就是「一見鐘情」。
Dana : What about ‘when you start off as friends, and then develop feelings for each other’?
maya' : SaSekla’ honaehnge: ’isa:a’ minowa’ ila. 就是互相認識很久了，然後就喜歡了
「日久生情」。
Dana : Okay. When I was in high school, I had a good friend, he had a secret crush on someone. How do we say ‘secret crush’?
maya' : minowa’ ’okay pakra:am hisiya. 就是喜歡但又不讓他知道，就是「暗戀」。
Dana : Ah! So when my friend, he finally wanted to talk to a secret crush, he told her that he liked her. But it was unrequited love, he liked her,but she didn’t like him. So how do you say that ‘unrequited love’.
maya' : 在中文裡面，這蠻像是「暈船」的感覺，那族語我就會說：hinSaylo’ ka ta’oeloeh ’inisiya. 就是為他頭暈。
Dana : Wait! Is that sea-sick in Chinese. It’s funny.
Dana : Ok, how do we say* ‘dating’*?
maya' : kaSlatar manmanra:an. 就是去外面走走、去外面散步，像是「約會」的感覺。
Dana : What about like my friend, when you want to tell someone that you love them?
maya' : manabih in nonak a hininowa’. 就是把自己的喜歡說出來，就是「告白」。
Dana : What about when you two are official, when you are really together, you are two people becoming one?
maya' : ’a’inowa’ ’isa:a’ ma’onhael ila. 就是互相喜歡最後就在一起了。也就是「交往」。
Dana : How do you say ‘discussion’?
maya' :討論 maehrahrang
Dana : Ah! Talk about things. Ok! How about ‘chat’?
maya' : 聊天 ’a’iyalatar
Dana: All right! So what about when you want to say ‘I like you’?
maya’ : I like you in SaySiyat就是ya:o minowa’ ’iSo’on.
Dana : ya:o minowa’ ’iSo’on.
maya' : 是的，這就是今天學到的單字。那大家要慢慢練習，有朝一日也許你可以用得上。祝福有情人終成眷屬，還沒有遇到那一位讓你動心的朋友們不用擔心，愛會在對的時候出現。
Dana : That’s right! Every journey has its own timeline. So keep faith, love will show up when you least expect it. And, for next time, we are going to be talking about marriage.
maya' : 下週見囉！一定要收聽marriage～
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