Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery

For the first time ever, I'm giving you a sneak peek into a weekly coffee chat I hosted. You women bring so much experience and wisdom to the table, and I'm so grateful to be on this journey with you! We talked about:

1. When an affair affects your family relationships

2. What has helped you grow spiritually on your healing journey?

3. Having an experience of Christ's love- do we have to walk through a traumatic experience?

4. Christ meets us in our anxiety!

Always remember: You are not alone!

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It's that time of year! Roses, hearts, love, teddy bears and chocolate, and- emotional overload. During the affair, holidays were always a disconnecting experience. I disconnected from God, disconnected from my husband, and disconnected from myself. Today, I choose different!

Get ready for some mindset work AND practical application! It's time we commit to living in truth, communicating our desires, and working on ourselves. Remember to come tell me what you're changing this week!

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Maybe you've heard the verse "There is no more condemnation" (Romans 8:1) or "Throw off your former way of life" (Ephesians 4:22), but for some reason, the past keeps popping up in your mind and blocking your vision. Even after I was on my healing journey, I still wrestled with everything pointing back to "the affair"!

I want to share a sneak peak into a counseling session I had during that season and share a few reflection questions I learned then. Join me on the daily journey of shedding your shame to live in true freedom!

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You were created for connection. But somewhere along the line, your Enemy tried to steal it. He tried to disconnect you from others, from God, and even from yourself. But not today! Let's chat about what happens when the Enemy lies to you and why community is really that important.

You are not alone!

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Jumping in today to a difficult question and answer- Is it okay if I still miss my affair partner? And the (short) answer is- yes! But then I would challenge you to dig in a bit deeper.

-How are you giving yourself space to ride out the emotions like you ride out a snow storm?

-What are you believing about the affair? About the partner? About yourself? About your marriage?

-Have you ever written out your whys for why you chose to end the affair? And why you chose to commit to your marriage?

You are not alone!

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Do you know you know you should be praying for yourself and your marriage, but you just can't drag your feet to your prayer closet anymore? Have you started to think that maybe your sin really is blocking your prayers from heaven?

You are not alone!

JOIN ME for our Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Starting THIS Tuesday, January 9 at 8:30 pm EST. Just ask me for the link...

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Looking for accountability? Let's connect over HERE! You are not alone!

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Ever been part of an accountability group? What was your experience? I've had a few great ones, but I've also been part of a few that fed my shame and guilt.

Join me today as I look at a few ideas of what accountability should NOT look like and also some things it needs to have.

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

Happy 6 months Podcast Family! Today I take a few minutes to reflect on how I decided to share my story publically, a few things I've learned along the way, and some advice on whether or not you should go public as well.

Have you ever wished you had immediate access to a coach who gets it? Email me at [email protected] and let's see how I can best support you!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

KristinaJoy

PS- Did you know your brain physically heals as you share your story in a safe space? COME join our FREE community HERE! You are not alone!

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One of the first questions in my healing journey was around my identity: who am I now? And more importantly, who does God say I am? So often we look at what we DO for a job or what we accomplish. But what if my identity isn't about my actions? That's great news for those of us who have struggled!

Join me today as I use Colossians 3 to answer those questions and more! Where are you? Who are you? And what can I do based off that?

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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Sister, Do you resonate with this? Sometimes you don't need another 3 point sermon; you just need someone to sit and hold your heart.

Today, I just want to sit and share some thoughts I've had while reading a life-changing book, Quenched. I pray that these thoughts challenge you in the deepest parts to know God more fully and get a clearer picture of how He sees you. (Hint: It's NOT with disgust!)

I pray you feel loved and seen, and that this encourages your healing journey. You were rescued and set FREE! It's time to walk in the freedom.

Find Jessica Harris's book Quenched HERE

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