Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery

Let's be honest, healing is sort of like an onion. Just when you think it's going to be smooth sailing, then it's time to peel back another layer.

Today, I share about a time I almost relapsed, but this time I had a plan. And I had wise counsel who almost made me cry on an airplane. So let's shed that shame and lean in to the hard and holy work of taking every thought captive.

Check out the Facebook community where we can be that safe space for the scary moments!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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I get it: the day starts, you get everyone out the door, you're off to work, then you're home for homework, dinner, baths, and bed, and then you crash into bed with any ounce of energy you have left. And for what? To get up and do it again tomorrow?

I promise you, friend- there IS a better way! Today, let's talk about eliminating hurry, and creating space for the things that matter.

You matter. Your marriage matters. Your children matter. Your time matters. Let's take them back instead of letting the temptation of hurry take control.

Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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Listen up: God used my passion for Network Marketing to rescue me from the affair. What?! How's that for a business strategy?

Today I share the part of my story where I chose to be around leveled up leaders who are determined to make an impact for the Kingdom. I share the lessons they taught me and how it applies to you, too. 

Now if you are a network marketer who wants to know the upcoming 2024 trends along with how to make a Kingdom-Impact with your business, I have a treat for you!

Monique Scrip & Becky Baxter will be hosting a FREE masterclass all about how to use Kingdom strategies to build your business. We would love for you to join us and share with with your teams!

Register here: https://scripandbaxter.myflodesk.com/freemasterclass

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

PS- Hear my interview on Monique's podcast! Episode 95: Prioritizing your Marriage

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What do you get when you squeeze an orange? What do you get when you are put under pressure? Not a joke here- whatever is inside, comes out!

Today let's talk about triggers, the emotions that get squeezed to the surface, and how we need God's Truth to cover it all.

Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on too!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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What do you think about when someone says "God is Father?" What do you see when you picture God's facial expression towards you? Then what if I held a mirror up to your parenting? 

Eeek! I felt the same way. As I learned how loving, kind, gracious, and compassionate God is towards me, His child, I couldn't help but think about how I parent my own children!

So join me on this parenting journey where I seek to model God's parenting style in my own home!

Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on too!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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Grab your journal for today's episode- it's filled with juicy questions and tips on creating the habits you need to actually reach your goals. 

Whether you have a goal for yourself, your marriage, or your job, learn the secrets to set yourself up for success.

Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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Can you relate? You sit down to read the Bible and it's silent. You don't know where to start. You aren't sure you believe it anyway. So much of it is confusing, and it probably doesn't even apply to you today!

Even though I was raised in the Christian world, the Bible felt dry for most of my life. It wasn't until my affair confession that I finally got serious about God's Word and what it meant for me. Can I share some of my favorite tips with you today? Let's dig into God's Love Letters together ❤

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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One thing I learned from my coach early on in my journey was that being decisive helps expedite your healing process. Make the decision, choose your choice, and start walking. The worst thing you can do is sit in indecision and wait and sit on the fence while time passes.

So let's talk today about what decisions you need to make, AND what else is impacted by your choices.

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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Episodes I mentioned:

Ep 6: Get to Know Yourself and Your Needs

Friend, I'm going to spare you the long introduction today.

I did something I never dreamed I was capable of. And then I finally hit my rock bottom.

BUT GOD. Jesus was so incredibly kind and gracious, and he rescued me from my own mess. He pulled me out of the fire. He saved me from all of the damage I caused and was about to cause.

So please be blessed by my story. Be encouraged, you are not alone. Be strengthened, that you need to make things right with such urgency as a life or death situation. And be bold- please let me know how I can help. I love you.

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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How often do you use the word compassion? What about self-compassion? What if I told you it was critical to your healing journey?!

Today I dive into what it is, what it says about God, and what it means for you, today. Grab your warm drink and favorite sweater; you'll want to be comfy cozy for this one!

I pray you experience the love of Christ today!

xoxo,

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