Marry Yourself 嫁给自己
Prepare “soul vows.” These vows were deepest commitment to love, cherish, and deeply care for all parts of yourself in sickness and in health, until your time on the planet comes to an end.
准备好“灵魂誓言”。这些誓言是你内心对爱情、珍爱、和深藏在你内心的所有一切的最诚挚的承诺，无论生命健康与否，会跟随你直到你在这个世界最后一天。
Seeking love outside yourself will never bring fulfillment unless you possess radical, unshakable love for yourself.
在外界寻找真爱不能让你有完全的满足感，除非你对自己有彻底的不可动摇的爱。
With that knowing, these are some of the Soul Vows:
有了这些共识，我们可以做出以下的灵魂誓言：
I vow to comfort myself during times of hopelessness, despair, depression, disillusionment, or any difficulty that arises.
我发誓，在绝望、沮丧、幻灭或任何困难出现的时候，我会安慰自己。
I vow to be my Beloved always and in all ways.
我发誓，我会一直，并以一切方式，做自己最心爱的人。
I vow to never settle or abandon myself in romantic partnerships again.
我发誓，我不会让自己再次在浪漫爱情中妥协或沉湎。
I vow to honor my spiritual path and create an amazing life whether I am ever legally married or not.
我发誓，以我的精神道路为荣，并创造出令人惊叹的人生，不管我是否合法结婚。
I vow to honor my calling and live my life as a work of art.
我发誓，以听到的号召为荣，让自己的人生活得像艺术品一样精彩。
Some vows were tender and some fierce—some private, and some to be shared with the world.
誓言有些是温和的，有些是激烈的，有些是私人的，有些可以与全世界分享。
All vows were an expression of my soul’s calling and a deep desire to love myself and care for myself at the deepest possible level in all areas of my life.
所有的誓言都体现我灵魂的召唤和爱护自己的强烈渴望以及尽可能深的在生活的各方面关爱自己。
These vows were the gateway into a life that was deeper, richer, and more connected to my soul’s guidance.
这些誓言都是进入一个更深入、更丰富以及与灵魂有更密切联系的生命的途径。