Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

By Amy Lang, M.A.Health & Fitness Kids & Family Sexuality

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! episodes

October 25, 2023How to talk about kink -- Episode 183
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Working the kinks out

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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

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The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

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Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
6 min
October 18, 2023Talking with neurodiverse kids about masturbation and what to do if your kiddo REALLY doesn't want to talk about sex -- Episode 182
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This episode's notes!

If your kid is neurodiverse and you'd like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. [email protected]

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
16 min
October 11, 2023The top 3 STIs and how to talk about them -- Episode 181
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This episode's notes!

What Are the 3 Most Common STIs?

STDs and HIV (from Amaze.org for kids age 10+)

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
12 min
October 04, 20239-year-old is pushing boundaries with clothes and makeup, how to handle anime with a teen, and a funny sex talk story --Episode 180
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This episode's notes!

Check out my Instagram

How to Talk to Your Daughter About Her Clothes

Celebrate Your Body book

Common Sense Media

Assasination Classroom - watch here

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
22 min
September 27, 2023Chirp: When is it okay for someone to have sex? -- Episode 179
In this episode, Amy assigns a bit of homework. When is it okay for someone to have sex? You have to be able to answer this question for yourself before you can help your kids find the answer.

Resources: My book: Birds & Bees & Your Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs about Sexuality, Love, & Relationships GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources: My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Even more resources:

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
5 min
September 20, 2023Should younger teens be put on birth control and kid majorly breaks down (and shuts down the talks) after sex ed at school -- Episode 178
In this episode, Amy answers a question about when to start birth control and offers help for a parent whose kid has shut down after sex ed at school.

Resources:

Learn more about Christy Keating and her amazing work at The Heartful Parent Collective.

Safety of oral contraceptives for teenagers

Amaze.org

Every Body Curious

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
25 min
September 13, 2023Chirp: How to find your child a therapist if they have been porn exposed -- Episode 177
In this episode, you'll learn how to find a therapist for your child if they have been porn exposed.

Resources Join the postcarding movement! Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure.

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
6 min
September 06, 2023Sex is on the table for 15-year-old kid with first girlfriend and kid watching "breast spanking" videos -- Episode 176
In this episode, Amy answers a question from a mom about her 15 year-old and his interest in sex. Also, Amy offers advice to a parent who is concerned about her 12 year-old who is watching porn.

Resources Join the postcarding movement!

My dated (2014) book for teens Dating Smarts: What Teens Need to Know to Date, Relate or Wait! Helps with values clarifcation and making sure they know what they are getting into (like that's a thing). Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure.

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
17 min
August 23, 2023Porn exposed kiddo acting out and mom's abuse triggering her. Daughter cries when mom tries to talk to her. -- Episode 174
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions from the mail bag about porn exposure and how to talk with a kiddo who is distraught by the talks.

Resources: Book: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures

Amaze.org

Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here

My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Even more resources:

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook

Instagram

Website
14 min
August 16, 2023Chirp: Emergency Contraception -- Episode 173
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain emergency contraception.

Effect of levonorgestrel emergency contraception on implantation

What is EC and How Does it Work? Info from the World Health Organization

Resources

My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support

RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.

BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)

Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram Website
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About Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

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Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place.