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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! episodes
- How to Talk About Masturbation Without Being Too Weird
Masturbation freaks parents out—but it doesn't have to. In this quick episode, I explain what kids need to know, what's normal, and how to talk about it without making it weird.
You'll learn: – What to say when you catch your kid exploring their body – How to keep the conversation calm and matter-of-fact – Why this is a healthy part of growing up
Next step:
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube
ND Kids Episode on YouTube Read here.
Got some thoughts or questions?
Learn more!
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Other stuff
Birds & Bees & Kids.com has tons of info and resources.
Work with kids? Check out BBKPros.com.
Socials: @birdsbeeskids
Monitoring and filtering: BARK is robust and pretty easy to install.
Do you have a neurodivergent kid? Grab 3 Key Things Your ND Kid Needs To Know (you'll get 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks, too)
Want to stay on top of the talks? Grab 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks
4 min - Puberty Prep for All Kids | How to Talk About Boners and Periods
Puberty doesn't have to be weird or awful, for you or your kid. In this short episode, I walk you through what to say about the coming changes, how to handle questions about boners and periods, and how to make sure your kid feels normal.
You'll learn:
– How to talk about puberty without turning beet red
– What kids really need to know (and when)
– How to make conversations about periods and erections no big deal
Watch here:
-
All Kids Episode on YouTube
-
ND Kids Episode on YouTube
Got some thoughts or questions?
Learn more!
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
9 min -
- Puberty and Neurodivergent Kids | What to Say About Boners and Periods
Puberty can be confusing and overwhelming for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids.
Periods can be scary and boners can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. I'll show you how to make it clear, concrete, and easier to handle.
You'll learn:
– How to talk about these two things without making it awkward (for you or your ND kid)
– What neurodivergent kids need to know to help them navigate boners and periods
– How to make conversations about periods and erections clear, concrete, and calm
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube
ND Kids Episode on YouTube
Got some thoughts or questions?
Learn more!
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
10 min - Crazy sex-talk on the playground and at lunchtime!
Want to invest in your child's future? Check out one of these! Or snag my book, Sex Talks with Tweens and get a ton of scripts.
1 hr 11 min - So long and thanks for all the calls! Plus 20 tips for the sex talks from Sex Talks with Tweens -- Episode 200
Hiya! Here are a bunch of ways you can stay in touch with me!
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Resources
Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is here.
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention, and even some videos you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my newsletter and get 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids. You'll be the first to know about upcoming classes and get regular tips to keep the talks going.
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center ($89) can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes a massive library of resources that include what they need to know by when, talking about porn, puberty and so much more.
Membership includes one Quickie Consultation! A $90 value so it's a wash!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Monitoring and filtering
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside the US)
Sexual abuse concerns
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
Socials
- YouTube
- Website
Thank you again for being a listener (and caller)! Together we've helped thousands of kids be safer and smarter and have a much better chance of growing up to become sexually healthy and happy people!
Take care!
Amy
PS Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote! It works! Areas that get the postcards see an increase in voting!
8 min - Librarian needs script for teachers who are complaining about sex ed books and lesbian moms need to buy condoms for their kid and need some pointers -- Episode 199
This episode's notes!
Amaze video: How to Use Condoms Effectively
A Brief Guide to Choosing the Right Size Condom Unite Against Banned Books
How to Talk About Book Bans with Friends, Library Patrons, and More: Book Censorship News
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)
Facebook Instagram YouTube Website
Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
10 min - How to make all your convos with your kids short and sweet! With Mary Willcox Smith -- Episode 198
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes!
My guest star Mary Willcox Smith!
Her book, The MicroStep Method for the Overwhelmed Parent is terrific! Get a free chapter here.
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)
Facebook Instagram YouTube Website
Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
1 hr 1 min - Boy masturbating in mom's bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? -- Episode 196
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Good old Amaze has great videos on masturbation (and more)! Show your kids ages 9+.
- Masturbation
- Females and Masturbation
- Birth Control Basics: Condoms, The Pill and The Patch
Anime Body Pillows! Check some out here.
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)
Facebook Instagram YouTube Website
Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
15 min - What does sex positive mean? -- Episode 195
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for this article! She's fab. Check her out here. Peggy Orenstein
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)
Facebook Instagram YouTube Website
Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
8 min - The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a "girlfriend" as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? -- Episode 194
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.
Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)
Facebook Instagram YouTube Website
Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!
18 min
About Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
From the publisher's feed
Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place.
Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya.
I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.
Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.
When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks, what's age-appropriate, and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!
When it comes to communicating about all things related to sexuality, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.
To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it's a stupid one), call 206-926-1522.*
I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.
+ IG @BirdsBeesKids
+ FB @BirdsBeesKids
+ BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
*In middle school, they talk about everything, so it's better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real.
Do you remember middle school? Wouldn't it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?
**Not a thing.
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