Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

The main reason we have sex is for pleasure! Learn how to talk with kids about sex for pleasure so you don't freak out, and they don't either. Much.

This is a tough one for most parents, so start small, keep it chill, and get it done.

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube

• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com for tons of resources!

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Often, neurodivergent kids struggle to understand why people would have sex for pleasure. This may be due to sensory issues, disinterest, or the assumption by adults that they aren't (and won't ) be interested, so don't need to know this.

It's best to assume your kid will be interested in sex and relationships so that they can have a healthy and fun sex life - if they want one.

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube

• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com for tons of resources!

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

How to talk to young kids about sexually transmitted infections without freaking them out. Or being crazy uncomfortable.

What are STDs? From Planned Parenthood

The Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

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Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals, BBKpros.com

Other resources

• Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
• RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
• BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
• Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

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Mom needs some guidance as her teen starts a relationship! She has questions about setting clear house rules around things like bedroom doors and sleepovers.

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube
• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining.

Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy.

Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this.

Watch here:

All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Read here.

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Other stuff

Birds & Bees & Kids.com has tons of info and resources.

Work with kids? Check out BBKPros.com.

Socials: @birdsbeeskids

Monitoring and filtering: BARK is robust and pretty easy to install.

Do you have a neurodivergent kid? Grab 3 Key Things Your ND Kid Needs To Know (you'll get 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks, too)

Want to stay on top of the talks? Grab 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

In this episode, I talk about the word 'slut'.

List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here.

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube

• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

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In this episode, I explains grooming - how to spot it and what to do about it.

Consent Parenting is the place for you if you were sexually abused as a child.

Savvy Parents Safe Kids has up-to-date tips too help you spot trouble.

There's a lot of helpful info here about this from the Australian government Practice Kit for Child Sexual Abuse (this is for folks who work with kids).

Other resources

• Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
• RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
• BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
• Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

BBK Bookstore is here

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube

• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

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The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable.

You'll learn: – How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations – What language makes boundaries crystal clear – How to support them when family doesn't get it

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids.

LEARN MORE

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube
• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here's how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and "say-hi" moments with confidence and respect.

You'll learn: – What to teach kids about saying "no" politely – How to prep family for your boundary rules – Ways to model consent during the holidays

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE

Watch here:

• All Kids Episode on YouTube

• ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

When you stop talking, your connection with your kids will get better. And you will FEEL better because all that yapping takes a ton of energy.

Watch here:

All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions?

[email protected]

Learn more!

BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

30-minute Quickie Consultation

Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!

The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

The Porn Talk Info Kit

Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.